What can you do when your husband is not physically attracted to you? Check out these tips from a strong, Christian wife who has been in the trenches.
Category: Intimacy
Oneness in Marriage: Not Too Close but Not Too Far Away
What is oneness in marriage? How can you find the right balance of not being too distant but not smothering each other?
A Wife Begins to Find Healing for Her Insecurities about Body Image
For our precious sisters in Christ who don’t yet know their beauty and worth and who are struggling, may God heal your heart and mind and flood your soul with His peace, joy and truth! FROM THE WIFE WHO ASKED, “HOW COULD A HUSBAND LOVE HIS WIFE, AND BE VISUALLY ATTRACTED TO OTHER WOMEN?” Wow. This… Continue reading A Wife Begins to Find Healing for Her Insecurities about Body Image
When Your Husband Rejects You
What can you do when your husband rejects you sexually? That is a miserable place to be. Let’s look for hope together.
Missing Each Other’s Signals
Sometimes, a wife may feel rejected by her husband sexually, when in reality, her husband just didn’t pick up on her signals and had no idea she even felt rejected, or that she was trying to initiate intimacy. This can also happen in reverse, as well. Maybe, it could be a wise idea to have… Continue reading Missing Each Other’s Signals
What is Attractive/Unattractive to Our Husbands?
Greg and April at Magnolia Plantation, Charleston, SC – April 2013 (I write primarily for wives who tend to be more Type A and controlling – if you are the opposite of that, this blog may not be a good fit for you. If you are experiencing abuse in your marriage, please do not read… Continue reading What is Attractive/Unattractive to Our Husbands?
A Husband’s Pain – His Wife’s Body Image Issues
From a husband: ———————————– My 50+ year-old wife is truly beautiful by any spiritual or secular standard. After 20 years of marriage and (several) children the sight of her still stirs me, clothed or not. I am constantly telling her how beautiful she is and how incredibly attracted I am to her (from gentle, sincere… Continue reading A Husband’s Pain – His Wife’s Body Image Issues
The Fantasy of Romance
This is probably going to sound a bit extreme. It is certainly up to you what you do with this area of your life. I am not saying you must do what I do. But I am saying – this is something to think about and pray about. “Everything is permissible for me –… Continue reading The Fantasy of Romance
Attracting Your Husband
You cannot force your man to be attracted to you. You can be a godly woman, full of joy and peace and God’s Spirit. THAT is attractive to men. Then we trust God with the results. 🙂 What I am about to list is not a bunch of rules – but rather – it comes… Continue reading Attracting Your Husband
The Devastation of Sexual Rejection in Marriage
If you have severe issues in your marriage, please seek godly, experienced, wise counsel! Ladies, I know that MANY of you are suffering in your marriage with the pain of sexual rejection. The pain can be excruciating. And many women think they are the only wives whose husbands refuse them. Reading marriage books that constantly… Continue reading The Devastation of Sexual Rejection in Marriage