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An Interview With My Husband — 3rd Interview Controlling Nikka with my sad husband Dong – Dec 2009 From my dear friend, Nikka. Check out her blog at www.peacefulwifephilippines.blogspot.com Nikka and I both write from the perspective of wives who used to be controlling and domineering, Type A personalities with passive husbands. If that is not your …
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At a Family Outing in Pampanga – Feb 2012 Nikka Alejar is my dear friend and sister in Christ from the Philippines who has started a blog www.peacefulwifephilippines.blogspot.com. I plan to feature a post from her once a week on Wednesdays. I am so thrilled about what God is doing in her life and marriage. What a …
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Nikka’s husband, Dong, and their youngest child A guest post from my dear friend, Nikka, who began this journey in September of 2013 – www.peacefulwifephilippines.blogspot.com ——————————— When I asked my husband if I could interview him, he said, “Okay, but you will not like what I will say. It might not even …
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Nikka From my precious sister in Christ, Nikka, from the Philippines. You can find her at www.peacefulwifephilippines.blogspot.com 1. Live a virtuous life. Kind words and gestures can soften a hardened heart than any harsh word or judgmental remark towards another can (Proverbs 15:1). As wives, we are encouraged to be “pure” and “reverent” not only …
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Baptism of our 3rd child – Nov 2010 From my amazing friend and sister in the Lord, Nikka. You can find her blog at www.peacefulwifephilippines.blogspot.com. She began this journey to become a godly wife 9-1-2013. I used to think I was the picture of a kind and respectful wife. You see… I did not nag. …
In the last post, we talked about four primary reasons why your husband may seem to not care about you. It is critical that you can identify which of the four root causes is the issue in your marriage so that you can decide how to approach the issue wisely. It takes the discernment and …
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This sweet wife has given me permission to share her response to the post on Monday, “How Can I Tell If God Is Working in My Life or If I Am Trying to Do This in My Own Power?” This is just an important post! This was the hardest thing on this journey for …
Here are some questions I asked the gentlemen readers a few weeks ago: 1. What are some things that you would like to ask your wife to do for you that you believe would make your marriage stronger? 2. What are some practical things wives can do in general that would make their husbands feel …
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Nikka and Dong 1. FROM AN ANONYMOUS WIFE who had been very upset her husband had been working six 12 hour days a week (at a very labor-intensive job) for over two months and wanted more time with him: The craziest thing just happened!! My husband just walk in and said he …
When a wife first begins this journey, it can be a very difficult time for her husband, many times, too. Let me see if I can pull the curtain back a bit on a husband’s heart and mind during these first few months (and maybe even years) when a wife truly repents and begins to …
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