A Prayer for a New Beginning in Christ

The kind of sincere prayer that will honor God and get you moving in the right direction to live with Him as LORD of your life is something like this: Jesus, You alone are my Lord and my God.  I have sinned against You.  I confess all of these sins (here are some examples): unforgiveness… Continue reading A Prayer for a New Beginning in Christ

"My Assumptions Created Problems in Our Marriage!"

From a reader, THANK YOU for sharing!!!!  I SO totally relate to her mindset, and I did the EXACT same thing in the past!  I LOVE what this wife has learned and the way she shares it is so relatable.  I know this post will bless MANY, MANY other wives!  Great job!!!!! ——————————————————- I have… Continue reading "My Assumptions Created Problems in Our Marriage!"

I handed over the finances – Update!!

From my friend, Kayla, at www.lessonsofmercy.wordpress.com I promised when I started this blog that I was going to be real.  If I am going to write “Practical Applications” that are really attainable, instead of leaving Christians with a desire to change, but no real way to get the new results, then I have to be… Continue reading I handed over the finances – Update!!

God and My Husband AMAZE Me!

Those of you who have read my story know that I used to be a pretty controlling, disrespectful and dominating wife for the first 15 years or so of our marriage. I didn’t do it maliciously.  I wanted to be a godly wife.  I actually believed I WAS being the BEST Christian wife.  I didn’t… Continue reading God and My Husband AMAZE Me!

"I Finally Came Clean with My Husband"

From a wife who took my Peacefulwife class last fall. Thank you so much for sharing!!!!!!  I know that many other wives are about to be blessed! I work 2 jobs to help put hubby through school. I had no control of the money in my first marriage and had to often times even return… Continue reading "I Finally Came Clean with My Husband"

A Real Life Example of Respect and Submission

The pictures are actually from our trip to Myrtle Beach 2011 when this story happened! Ladies, Here is a real life, super practical example of a situation one summer. We were leaving that morning for the beach to have a few days of vacation – my husband, our two children and myself. That morning our… Continue reading A Real Life Example of Respect and Submission

How Respect and Biblical Submission Impacted a Husband's Soul

This is a message I received from a reader.  She repented of her years of disrespect and trying to control her husband about 5 weeks ago.  She had learned some of these principles years  before, but a major tragedy in the family sent her reeling and now she is relearning and taking baby steps again.… Continue reading How Respect and Biblical Submission Impacted a Husband's Soul

A Wife's Power in Marriage

We took a marriage class last winter by a man I have known and respected for 25 years.  He spoke a lot about authority during our semester: God-given authority, spiritual authority and the needs of those leaders who are in authority over us.  And I HOPE that one day I have the chance to take… Continue reading A Wife's Power in Marriage

Your Words Can Cause Catastrophic Damage!

Just as a general principle – DO NOT bash your husband to other people. EVER.   Honor him with every word! He who covers over an offense promotes love, but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends.  Proverbs 17:9 A fool finds no pleasure in understanding, but delights in sharing his own opinions.  Proverbs 17:27 A… Continue reading Your Words Can Cause Catastrophic Damage!

The PAINFUL Email Issue

Here is an issue that comes up A LOT! Many wives email me and are VERY, VERY upset because they email their husbands but then sometimes their husbands don’t email them back.  Then the wives feel SO unloved and hurt.  They believe that if their husbands loved them,  they would ALWAYS immediately write a loving… Continue reading The PAINFUL Email Issue