"If I Trust and Obey God, I Will Be Fake and Lose Myself" – a Guest Post

A wife asked, “Why does God always want to change people? That’s not real unconditional love. I don’t want to lose myself and I feel like I would lose myself if I do what God wants me to do.” FROM ANOTHER WIFE AND SISTER IN CHRIST (with her permission): You will be more *you* than… Continue reading "If I Trust and Obey God, I Will Be Fake and Lose Myself" – a Guest Post

"Without a Word" – WorthyofLove’s Experience

From WorthyofLove (who wrote about her husband’s text messages): “When a Husband Is Negative, Critical, or Hurtful” is just the reminder I need in my particular marriage. It seems more often than not that my husband is on the negative side, and a lot of times I take it personally. Before finding your site I… Continue reading "Without a Word" – WorthyofLove’s Experience

Things Got Worse at First When I Began to Change – by The Restored Wife

The Restored Wife Shares some of the most difficult parts of her journey with us (by the way, her husband’s response is pretty common): When I started this journey, I had no idea how to be respectful or submissive – our biggest issue at that time was the way both of us reacted any time there… Continue reading Things Got Worse at First When I Began to Change – by The Restored Wife

WorthyofLove Finally “Gets” Her Husband’s Text Messages

TODAY’S GUEST POST: Sometimes, our husbands don’t share that they are feeling disrespected or that we are sinning against them and we have no idea we have contributed to the problems in our marriages. But other times, they truly do clearly try to explain that they feel unloved, mistreated, and disrespected – and we just don’t hear… Continue reading WorthyofLove Finally “Gets” Her Husband’s Text Messages