The Wrong Counselor Can Be More Dangerous Than No Counselor

There are many Christian counselors, pastors, friends, family members and godly mentoring wives who do great GOOD, who help to point hurting women and men to Christ and to His Word and who help people walk through difficult trials. These are the people who help people to primarily look at their own lives and their walk with God and… Continue reading The Wrong Counselor Can Be More Dangerous Than No Counselor

What Does It Mean to Be a “Lady” – to Be Feminine? (Some Questions for My Readers)

 Audrey Hepburn in 1954 – from Wikipedia I am planning on doing a series of posts about ungodly femininity and godly femininity in the coming weeks. But I also want to talk about general femininity. The definition of what it means to be feminine or to be a woman has changed quite a lot over… Continue reading What Does It Mean to Be a “Lady” – to Be Feminine? (Some Questions for My Readers)

“I’m Thinking of Having an Affair”

This is an old post, but, I hope it might be a blessing to some who are playing with fire today – pointing them back to Christ and the safety of His arms.

The Idol of Happiness

We tend to think that “idolatry” means someone bowing down to a statue and praying to it in a shrine. It’s really easy to dismiss that practice as not even remotely a temptation to us today in our culture and to discount everything the Bible says about idolatry as being irrelevant to us. Big mistake!… Continue reading The Idol of Happiness

Wives Share What They Have Learned – Part 2

Continuing to share what wives have been learning from our discussion about “I Just Want Him to Spend More Time with Me.” For part one, please click here. And for some husbands’ perspectives on this issue, please click here. Thanks again to all the wives who shared. The more voices on this topic and the more… Continue reading Wives Share What They Have Learned – Part 2

Different Kinds of “Unbelief”

I obviously didn’t quite explain the whole “sin of unbelief” thing very clearly a week or so ago. I hope that this clarification helps. 🙂

Wives Share What They Have Learned – Part 1

I think that most of us have realized, this approach does NOT work and is very unattractive to our men – understandably so!  Wives share what they have learned about how to approach their husbands when they want their husbands to spend more time with them. From our discussion last week. Thank you to all the… Continue reading Wives Share What They Have Learned – Part 1

A Bride-to-Be Begins Her Journey to Become a Godly Wife

I am so excited to share this precious sister’s story! I cannot begin to imagine if I had a chance to start to learn these things BEFORE marriage. What a blessing!!!!  I cannot wait to see all that God has in store for this young bride-to-be and for each of you, my precious sisters. 🙂 Thank you April… Continue reading A Bride-to-Be Begins Her Journey to Become a Godly Wife

“I Just Want Him to Want to Spend More Time with Me!” – a Discussion

I think that almost every wife has felt like this – most of us, many, many times. For some, maybe it has been every day for years. It is GREAT for us to ask our husbands for what we want and need. As grown adults with God-given free will, our husbands do need to have… Continue reading “I Just Want Him to Want to Spend More Time with Me!” – a Discussion

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Triggers for Sinful Thoughts

  A few weeks ago, I conducted a survey to determine what some of our greatest triggers are as wives that get us thinking in a downward spiral of sinful thoughts. Of those who answered, here are the results (please remember that ladies could vote for as many of these as are triggers for them):… Continue reading Triggers for Sinful Thoughts