“My Two Year Anniversary As a Separated Wife”

ADMIN NOTE – with the transition to the new host for this site, some people have been getting error messages or warnings that the site is not secure. This issue should resolve itself within the next few days or clearing your cache should fix it immediately.  Let me know if you continue to have this… Continue reading “My Two Year Anniversary As a Separated Wife”

Making Adjustments

Usually, during the school year, I am able to spend 30+ hours per week on online ministry – writing posts for both of my blogs, responding to comments, making Youtube videos, and sharing on Facebook. When my children are home for the summer, things get a bit more challenging ministry-wise. I don’t want to spend… Continue reading Making Adjustments

"If I Trust and Obey God, I Will Be Fake and Lose Myself" – a Guest Post

A wife asked, “Why does God always want to change people? That’s not real unconditional love. I don’t want to lose myself and I feel like I would lose myself if I do what God wants me to do.” FROM ANOTHER WIFE AND SISTER IN CHRIST (with her permission): You will be more *you* than… Continue reading "If I Trust and Obey God, I Will Be Fake and Lose Myself" – a Guest Post

Transforming Our Thought Lives

When the flesh is in control, our minds are filled with worldly things like: greed bitterness gossip hatred materialism envy idolatry (desiring other things or people more than we desire God) negativity complaining contention lies pride lust worry fear unbelief self These things consume our thoughts, fuel our motives, and ultimately determine our words and… Continue reading Transforming Our Thought Lives

WorthyofLove Realizes What This Journey Is All About!

  Worthyoflove shares some insights God has been showing her: Yes, there is hope. And I am finding that God is intervening more and more quickly when I start to put my husband up as an idol again, or anything else. I am learning first hand now that God will NOT allow any competition in… Continue reading WorthyofLove Realizes What This Journey Is All About!

When a Husband “Doesn’t Buy” His Wife’s Changes

From a sister in Christ who has been on this journey to become a godly wife for a year and a half – I am so thankful for her willingness to share:   My husband insists I will always be who I was. He asks “is THIS the REAL you, now?” I replied that “I… Continue reading When a Husband “Doesn’t Buy” His Wife’s Changes

"Without a Word" – WorthyofLove’s Experience

From WorthyofLove (who wrote about her husband’s text messages): “When a Husband Is Negative, Critical, or Hurtful” is just the reminder I need in my particular marriage. It seems more often than not that my husband is on the negative side, and a lot of times I take it personally. Before finding your site I… Continue reading "Without a Word" – WorthyofLove’s Experience