The Voice in His Head

by the Respected Husband On Sunday, September 23rd, the Peacefulwife ran a guest post by Kayla Gulick titled My Demon. In the article, Kayla described how all of the voices in her head accuse her husband of the worst. This prompted a discussion between the Peacefulwife and me. She then asked me about whether a… Continue reading The Voice in His Head

Other Wives Have "Demons," Too!

Kayla authored a guest post last week that really caught the attention of so many wives – and my husband and me.  There were LOTS of lightbulb moments.  I want to share some of the comments two other wives made that I think might be especially helpful for wives.  We also had a LOT of… Continue reading Other Wives Have "Demons," Too!

A Wife Learns to Stop "Coaching" Her Husband

Here is a message I received from a reader about the post yesterday.  She has some really amazing insights to share.  Thank you for sharing your story, Theresia! About the “Are We Deceived about How to Find God’s Will?” post.  This makes me think about when God learned me that respect towards my husband is… Continue reading A Wife Learns to Stop "Coaching" Her Husband

Are We Deceived about How to Find God's Will?

This is a comment I received from a husband on a post I did about Finding God’s Will.  I think he is onto something really important.  And he graciously allowed me to share his comments with you. Reading your post turned a lightbulb on for me. I think I now actually have a much better… Continue reading Are We Deceived about How to Find God's Will?

Being a Minister's Wife

I started something new on my Peacefulwife Blog Facebook page yesterday!  For those of you who prefer to learn by listening – I have posted a few of my first VIDEOS!  Now you can be in “my class” – even though you’re not at my church. 🙂  Let me know if you like that medium… Continue reading Being a Minister's Wife

My Demon Tempts Me to Resent My Husband.

Do you ever have a conversation with yourself where you feel like, “Maybe that is my demon speaking, not really me?” And you want to hear God’s voice instead of that nasty demon’s voice about your husband? Check out this wife’s story!


  Today’s guest post is from  Thank you to this wife for such a beautiful and practical description of how we can trust our husbands and God in our marriage.  I LOVE IT! Trust is… putting your hope and belief and confidence in another person’s ability or a personal quality of theirs. Trust is… Continue reading Trust

A Disrespected Husband's Perspective

Thank you from the bottom of my heart to the husband who took the time to answer these questions in such detail.  Wives – please hear this husband’s heart and consider – does your husband feel like this man does?   My husband wasn’t able to articulate himself and verbalize how disrespected he felt before God… Continue reading A Disrespected Husband's Perspective

What Is Disrespect in Marriage?

UPDATED 6/24/2016 I am going to share about things that cause men to feel disrespected by their wives. (Many of these things would feel very disrespectful to wives, as well.) Every man has his own list of what feels disrespectful and respectful to him.  Some things are almost universally one way or the other to… Continue reading What Is Disrespect in Marriage?

Being a Good Follower

If you tend to be a controlling, contentious, “always right,” resentful, disrespectful wife – like I used to be – learning to follow your husband can be a big challenge.  You may not think he is leading at all, or that he can’t lead or won’t lead.  Or you may not like the way he… Continue reading Being a Good Follower