“Isn’t Loving or Respecting Myself Wrong and Selfish?” – by Radiant

I’m honored to welcome Radiant to share with us today. She has been married almost 23 years and has several children. The Lord has radically healed her from pretty severe spiritual oppression and even physical illness. This sweet sister in Christ has had a very different road from my own. She had the opposite personality… Continue reading “Isn’t Loving or Respecting Myself Wrong and Selfish?” – by Radiant

Is It Possible to “Disrespect Myself”?

  God’s design for us as godly women is that we are first to have utmost reverence for Him as LORD of our lives and as the sovereign King of the universe. We are also to respect ourselves, our husbands, and all other people. Another way of describing “respecting ourselves” that may be even more… Continue reading Is It Possible to “Disrespect Myself”?

“Dying to Self” Can Be Dangerously Misunderstood

Last Thursday, I ran a post about “Dying to Self.” Today, I want to talk about how it is possible for someone to misunderstand the concept of “taking up your cross and following” Jesus to think that this means, “I must take abuse. My needs don’t matter. I have to let my husband beat me or… Continue reading “Dying to Self” Can Be Dangerously Misunderstood

25 Ways to Respect Myself

Does respecting my husband or other people mean I have to disrespect myself? What are some practical ways to respect myself?

“I Can’t Ask for Things. I Shouldn’t Have Needs, Desires, or Emotions” – by Radiant

Do you think like this wife? “I shouldn’t have needs?” Like it is bad if you actually are human and need help or want to ask for something? Check out her story for a blessing!

Being a Trophy Wife is Not the Goal, My Dear Sisters! – by Radiant

Being a godly wife is not about being a trophy wife at all. If you feel pressured to live like this, this wife’s healing and biblical insights are for you!

The Worth of a Person

  ADMIN NOTE: My apologies – I needed to pull the earlier post today. I am so sorry for any confusion. If you are interested in what Siri Mitchell had to say, you may check out the comments on this post. The world has many ways to size up a man and judge his “value”… Continue reading The Worth of a Person

A Wife Responds to a Sister in Christ Who Is Feeling Insecure

This is from a reader – it was one of the comments on Thursday’s post “What Does It Mean to Be an Ungodly Woman?” ———— This helped me get over a big hump that seemed to be blocking my faith. I’m not saying that I’ve completely overcome that hump, because a lot of what you… Continue reading A Wife Responds to a Sister in Christ Who Is Feeling Insecure

“I May Never Have Worldly Beauty”

      From Peacefulwife: I didn’t feel beautiful or feminine at all when I was growing up. My twin sister was “the girly one.” I was the tomboy.  In upper elementary and junior high school, I got made fun of often for my glasses, my pale skin, the red dots on my legs and my… Continue reading “I May Never Have Worldly Beauty”

From Clark Kent to Superman

Image from Fanpop I have the vision to see the hero deep inside of my husband – the man God desires him to be and created him to be – and how, by God’s power working in me (and in him) and my respect and cooperation, he can fully become that hero of a man. Everyone else may just see a… Continue reading From Clark Kent to Superman