[caption id="attachment_15236" align="aligncenter" width="520"] April in 1st grade[/caption]   [caption id="attachment_15238" align="aligncenter" width="520"] April in 7th grade[/caption]   From Peacefulwife: I didn't feel beautiful or feminine at all when I was growing up. My twin sister was "the girly one." I was the tomboy.  In upper elementary and junior high…