Respect Doesn’t Work on My Husband

We are looking at some FAQs that I receive in this series. This seems like more than I can handle (part 1) When do I get to the “peaceful” part? (part 1) I don’t want to lose my voice in my marriage. (part 2) I feel like I am losing myself. (part 2) I feel so lonely.… Continue reading Respect Doesn’t Work on My Husband

I Feel Alone, Discouraged and Like I Can’t Say Anything Right to My Husband

We are talking about some FAQs that I get from a lot of wives who are just beginning this journey toward becoming godly, respectful, biblically submissive wives with peaceful and gentle spirits who do what is right and do not give way to fear and are very beautiful in God’s sight. This seems like more… Continue reading I Feel Alone, Discouraged and Like I Can’t Say Anything Right to My Husband

“I Don’t Want to Lose My Voice, My Power or My Identity!”

I am answering some FAQs I hear from wives as they begin this journey to become godly, respectful wives with gentle and peaceful spirits who do what is right and do not give way to fear. (I Peter 3:5-6) A little bit about me – I am a pharmacist and a mom of two.  I… Continue reading “I Don’t Want to Lose My Voice, My Power or My Identity!”

“So, When Do I Get to Feel Peaceful?”

I’d like to welcome a number of new wives who are just beginning this journey toward becoming the godly wives God calls us to be. It can be a bit overwhelming at first as you begin to look at all that you don’t know and all that it seems needs to be changed.  A lot… Continue reading “So, When Do I Get to Feel Peaceful?”

“Jesus Is My Husband”

  A lot of Christian women like to use this phrase. I understand why. Ultimately, marriage represents Christ and His bride the church (Ephesians 5:22-33).  He is the heavenly Bridegroom for believers – the body of Christ.   Together, Christians comprise “the bride of Christ” – according to God’s Word. We have the promise that… Continue reading “Jesus Is My Husband”

Bitterness of Soul – I Want to Be His FIRST Priority!

By  A Fellow Wife who wrote “Giving Up on My Dream for My Marriage”  and “I’m Going to Stop Pursuing My Husband (in the Wrong Ways)” and “Getting Back on Track” I have always loved the story of Hannah in the bible because I identified with her, but not in the conventional way that you might… Continue reading Bitterness of Soul – I Want to Be His FIRST Priority!

Getting Back on Track

By a Fellow Wife – who began this journey in October 2012 with me.  This is the wife who wrote: Giving Up on My Dream for My Marriage I’m Going to Stop Pursuing My Husband (in the Wrong Ways) ————————— This is something I wrote for myself… as a way to help this farther sink… Continue reading Getting Back on Track

Are You Willing to Sacrifice Your “Isaac”?

I love the story of Abraham’s great faith in God in the Old Testament.  God promised Abraham and Sarah a baby.  They waited over 20 years for that child to come.  By the time God blessed them with Isaac, Sarah was over 90 years old and Abraham was around 100! GENESIS 22 Some time later… Continue reading Are You Willing to Sacrifice Your “Isaac”?

When He Starts to Miss You

This post is for wives who were being controlling and trying to force their husbands to be with them, say certain things to them and who were trying to initiate physical intimacy and were getting rejected a good bit – and have tried to correct these things by backing away some and giving their husbands… Continue reading When He Starts to Miss You

“I Don’t Know How to React…..”

From my wonderful friend, Kayla (at www.lessonsofmercy.wordpress.com),  who has been on this journey with me now since Sept of 2012.  She is the one who wrote the now-famous post on my site, “My Demon.”   Today’s post is amazing.   But for the wives who are struggling – this may be hard to read. Please keep… Continue reading “I Don’t Know How to React…..”