Being a Good Follower

If you tend to be a controlling, contentious, “always right,” resentful, disrespectful wife – like I used to be – learning to follow your husband can be a big challenge.  You may not think he is leading at all, or that he can’t lead or won’t lead.  Or you may not like the way he… Continue reading Being a Good Follower

Ways Husbands Lead that Wives Often Don’t Notice

Sometimes, we wives have certain expectations of how a husband should lead. Here are some real life ways husbands lead that may surprise you.

Support and Encourage His Hobbies

Maybe you want your husband to spend all his free time with you. Should you encourage his hobbies?

A Man's Perspective on "When a Husband Can't/Won't Lead"

Here is a comment about handling the issue of a husband’s seemingly reluctant leadership in marriage from Daniel P. Robertson. This was his response to my post “I want to follow my husband.  What if he doesn’t lead?  How Can I Inspire His Leadership?”  What should a wife do when her husband can’t or won’t… Continue reading A Man's Perspective on "When a Husband Can't/Won't Lead"

“I Want to Follow my Husband. What if He Doesn’t Lead? How Can I Inspire His Leadership?”

If I really want to have a cooperative spirit with my husband but he won’t seem to lead. How can I inspire his leadership in ways that are healthy and not controlling?

"MY Man Doesn’t Deserve my Respect!!!!"

Do you ever find yourself thinking, “My man doesn’t deserve my respect!” Maybe you’re right. What does the Lord call you to do then?

Before and After Pictures of My Soul

I love before and after pictures.  I love to see before and after house renovation pics and also makeover pictures of people.  There is something amazing about being able to witness huge visual/aesthetic improvements in a place or a person.  Here I am going to give you some “before and after” pictures from my own soul. … Continue reading Before and After Pictures of My Soul

Be Still

What does it look like to just be still as a wife and Christian woman? Check this out!

Marriage Seminar "7 Basic Needs of a Wife and 7 Basic Needs of a Husband"

My husband and I began attending a class at our church tonight taught by one of my favorite Bible teachers, Harold Weaver.  I wish this class went on for about 7 hours- it is so fascinating to me!  But tonight we only got to the first need of a wife.  I am paraphrasing, but it… Continue reading Marriage Seminar "7 Basic Needs of a Wife and 7 Basic Needs of a Husband"