Could Your Husband Be Trapped in Shame?

I believe that for our husbands, shame is often a very serious issue. Shame can deepen and become entrenched in a man’s heart to the point that it becomes extremely toxic – total imprisonment. When a man is feeling shame, he will generally retreat into himself to protect himself from exposure. Sin is always progressive […]

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Book Review – "Through a Man's Eyes" by Shaunti Feldhahn and Craig Gross

Shaunti Feldhahn is a Christian author (one of my favorites!), speaker, and social researcher. Craig Gross is a pastor and founder of www.xxxchurch.org that has Christ-centered, biblical help for those ensnared by lust, pornography, and sex addictions. They teamed up to help women better understand how their men think, what kinds of temptation they face, […]

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Preparing Our Hearts for “Through a Man’s Eyes” by Shaunti Feldhahn and Craig Gross

REMINDER: You may want to join me on Facebook at Peacefulwife Blog for extra insights, prayers, and thoughts to bless your walk with Christ and your marriage. 🙂 (The link is on the right column of my blog.) Shaunti Feldhahn is one of my favorite authors. She is a social researcher and Christian author who […]

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Wives Respond to the “The List”

One of the most popular posts on my blog is the one where a number of husbands share what they feel is disrespectful. Some women get pretty upset when they read that list and think that “men just have super-sized egos.” Some think that these men are “whining and complaining” about a bunch of “really […]

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Gentlemen – Would You Help Us Better Understand the Mechanics of Masculine Prayer?

I attended the first session of a Bible study about prayer this morning and we talked about the benefits of having a prayer journal. I LOVE journaling – it is the way I prefer to pray because writing things out forces me to stay focused and helps me cement what I am reading in Scripture […]

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Wow! The Best Explanation of Biblical Manhood and Womanhood I Have Ever Seen!

Greg introduced me to the podcasts of Wayne Grudem recently. I am so excited to hear this godly man teach! He was the general editor of the ESV version of the Bible. He knows Greek. He is the Professor of Theology and Biblical Studies at Phoenix seminary. He has written many books about theology. He […]

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An Interesting Masculine Perspective on Romantic Books/Movies

I had asked our brothers in Christ to share their answers to my questions about this topic a few weeks ago and was surprised by how heated the discussion got at times. I think it might stretch our thinking and our perspectives as women for us to hear some masculine perspectives on this topic. (Note […]

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When Your Husband Battles Pornography

Pornography use is at epidemic levels among men and women. The problem is staggering. This is not an issue for a few “dirty old men.” This is an issue for many men today, even in the church, sadly – and, it is increasingly a problem among women, as well. You can check out some interesting […]

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Godly Femininity – Part 2

        If you have not read Part 1, please read that to get started. 🙂 Can you imagine if you had witnessed godly examples of femininity at home as you were growing up, in your church, at school and in your community? This is what God desires – for children to be […]

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