Fighting Fair

When your blood starts boiling and the steam starts escaping, resort to FIGHT. Getting into the ring Today’s guest post is from www.cuppa.wordpress.com We have all been there I am sure. Fighting. Despite your best intentions or highest commitment to maintain a healthy happy relationship, it inevitably happens that we end up disagreeing with our… Continue reading Fighting Fair

Being a Minister's Wife

I started something new on my Peacefulwife Blog Facebook page yesterday!  For those of you who prefer to learn by listening – I have posted a few of my first VIDEOS!  Now you can be in “my class” – even though you’re not at my church. 🙂  Let me know if you like that medium… Continue reading Being a Minister's Wife

My Demon Tempts Me to Resent My Husband.

Do you ever have a conversation with yourself where you feel like, “Maybe that is my demon speaking, not really me?” And you want to hear God’s voice instead of that nasty demon’s voice about your husband? Check out this wife’s story!

A Disrespected Husband's Perspective

Thank you from the bottom of my heart to the husband who took the time to answer these questions in such detail.  Wives – please hear this husband’s heart and consider – does your husband feel like this man does?   My husband wasn’t able to articulate himself and verbalize how disrespected he felt before God… Continue reading A Disrespected Husband's Perspective

What Is Disrespect in Marriage?

UPDATED 6/24/2016 I am going to share about things that cause men to feel disrespected by their wives. (Many of these things would feel very disrespectful to wives, as well.) Every man has his own list of what feels disrespectful and respectful to him.  Some things are almost universally one way or the other to… Continue reading What Is Disrespect in Marriage?

Being a Good Follower

If you tend to be a controlling, contentious, “always right,” resentful, disrespectful wife – like I used to be – learning to follow your husband can be a big challenge.  You may not think he is leading at all, or that he can’t lead or won’t lead.  Or you may not like the way he… Continue reading Being a Good Follower

Ways Husbands Lead that Wives Often Don’t Notice

Sometimes, we wives have certain expectations of how a husband should lead. Here are some real life ways husbands lead that may surprise you.

Support and Encourage His Hobbies

Maybe you want your husband to spend all his free time with you. Should you encourage his hobbies?

A Man's Perspective on "When a Husband Can't/Won't Lead"

Here is a comment about handling the issue of a husband’s seemingly reluctant leadership in marriage from Daniel P. Robertson. This was his response to my post “I want to follow my husband.  What if he doesn’t lead?  How Can I Inspire His Leadership?”  What should a wife do when her husband can’t or won’t… Continue reading A Man's Perspective on "When a Husband Can't/Won't Lead"

“I Want to Follow my Husband. What if He Doesn’t Lead? How Can I Inspire His Leadership?”

If I really want to have a cooperative spirit with my husband but he won’t seem to lead. How can I inspire his leadership in ways that are healthy and not controlling?