I write very specifically for women, and very specifically not for men – although men are welcome here and many find healing in Christ here, too. My calling is Titus 2:3-5 and to “make disciples” for Jesus in the Body of Christ (primarily with women) – part of the Great Commission. Sometimes, because I only… Continue reading "Do You Think Women Are Always to Blame For Problems in Marriage?"
Category: Christian Marriage
"Isn't It Demeaning to Me if I Respect My Husband?"
A guest post from a precious sister in Christ who is very new to this journey: Thank you!! I was ready to quit when I stumbled onto your site. When you responded to my anger with such kindness and affirmation something clicked for me – if I could be kind to my husband when he’s… Continue reading "Isn't It Demeaning to Me if I Respect My Husband?"
“I Must Avoid Conflict at All Costs. That’s the Godly Thing to Do.”
It seems right to some who are afraid of conflict, but to avoid conflict at all costs, is that really healthy?
"Being Vulnerable and Direct Feels Wrong!"
Does being vulnerable make you break out in a panic attack? It sure made this reader feel that way. Read along as I address her concerns.
Healthy VS. Unhealthy Relationships
Where are people not permitted to say what they need, how they feel, or what they think? – those who are literally slaves or who are in concentration camps. – those in extremely oppressive countries with totalitarian regimes. – those who are in abusive or dysfunctional relationships/families. Here are some hallmarks of abusive/dysfunctional personal… Continue reading Healthy VS. Unhealthy Relationships
The Pendulum Effect
These are some observations I have made on this journey to become a godly wife that I pray might be a blessing to you. 🙂 TWO SINFUL EXTREMES: With almost every aspect of the Christian life, I picture a number line. In one direction is one extreme and in the other direction is another extreme.… Continue reading The Pendulum Effect
Another Challenge – Let Your Yes Mean Yes and Your No Mean No
What does it mean in real life to let your yes mean yes and your no mean no? Read this post to find out!
Responding to Insults, Criticisms, and Rebukes
Insults, criticisms, and rebukes can be really painful! But – they often do help me to grow spiritually as God uses them to prune and refine me. I don’t have to be afraid of them – even if they are a bit unpleasant at first. Let’s define the difference between these 3 concepts. All three… Continue reading Responding to Insults, Criticisms, and Rebukes
Measuring Intimacy
(NOTE – This post is not for wives experiencing severe issues in their marriages – like infidelity, a very controlling husband, an abusive husband, a husband who is not in his right mind due to mental illness/drug abuse/alcohol abuse, etc… If you are in such a situation, please seek appropriate one-on-one help and godly counsel.) I… Continue reading Measuring Intimacy
When Your Husband Is Not Physically Attracted to You
What can you do when your husband is not physically attracted to you? Check out these tips from a strong, Christian wife who has been in the trenches.