Category: Conflict

Dear sisters, For dealing with an angry husband, I have several resources I would like to share that I hope might be a blessing. Of course, each situation is a bit different. It is tempting to respond to our husband’s anger with anger of our own. But it is much more productive and healthy for… Continue reading Resources for Wives with Angry Husbands

In the last post, we talked about four primary reasons why your husband may seem to not care about you. It is critical that you can identify which of the four root causes is the issue in your marriage so that you can decide how to approach the issue wisely. It takes the discernment and… Continue reading 4 Approaches When You Think Your Husband Doesn’t Care

What can you do if you believe your husband doesn’t care about how you feel, your happiness, and what you desire in your marriage?

This is a joint post written by Nneka Simone (her words are in blue), April, and some anonymous wives’ examples. I appreciate the input, ladies! We talked in my last post about 6 times when we may need to prayerfully consider breaking (or minimizing) contact with others. One of those scenarios is if our husband… Continue reading What If You Want Your Husband to Cut Ties with Someone?

Photo by Timothy Eberly on Unsplash We are continuing our 21 Day Fast from Negative Words and this week the focus will be on arguing. The Lord gives very clear instructions throughout the Bible that those who know, love, and follow Him are not to argue, quarrel, or fight. Oh, and don’t forget to comment on… Continue reading Is Avoiding Arguing Really Possible?

Do you feel unloved in your marriage? Like you are not your husband’s first priority? What can you do if you feel, “My husband doesn’t spend enough time with me?”

Do you have a strained relationship with your husband’s mom? What’s the secret to dealing with a difficult mother-in-law?

Honestly, this is where most of us find ourselves at the beginning of this journey. I know I did. When I began my journey, my husband was completely shut down and he didn’t care about my feelings or happiness anymore. Or so I thought. He didn’t want to look at me, be in the same… Continue reading “What If My Husband Doesn’t Care about My Happiness?”

Photo Credit – Flickr Before we get into the issue of why not to criticize our in-laws, let’s define criticism. When I am speaking about criticism in this post, I am talking about: having a critical, judgmental, negative, condemning spirit toward others that cannot be pleased. insulting other people. fault-finding. gossipping. having a negative attitude.… Continue reading 6 Reasons NOT to Criticize Your In-Laws

If you tell your husband, “I want to tithe,” but he is not on board, what can you do? Should you give behind his back? Give nothing? Pressure him? Or what?