Hey, there. I’m April!

Picture of the Peaceful Wife book and a cup of coffee on a wooden table

Are you ready for genuine peace in your  marriage?

Are you:

  • Exhausted from trying so hard to make your marriage better?
  • Frustrated that your husband isn’t being more loving and attentive to you?
  • Resentful, hurt, and/or bitter toward your husband?
  • Struggling with trying to fix your husband and get him to change?
  • Battling a lot of anxiety, worry, fear, and/or discouragement?
  • Dealing with a husband who is withdrawn and shut down or one who resents your attempts to love him?
  • Feeling spiritually depleted and far from God?
  • Feeling resentful toward God or finding it difficult to trust Him?

If so,

I help wives discover the spiritual abundance we can all have through Jesus Christ and the wisdom we are looking for in our marriages that we can’t find in our culture.

My Big Mess

For the first 14 years of our marriage, I didn’t understand why things weren’t better. The harder I tried to make Greg be the man I wanted him to be, the more he shut down and the worse things got.

Eventually, he didn’t want to be in the same room with me, touch me, listen to me, or share anything with me.

I kept telling God to change him. But he didn’t change!

I had no idea why he was so passive and shut down. I just thought he was a terrible, unloving husband.

Then God opened my eyes to some serious blind spots in my own life in December of 2008. What a shock that was! I had actually been rather controlling, condescending, critical, bossy, argumentative, bitter, and difficult to approach.

Who knew that I was contributing to a hefty portion of the dysfunction myself?

As of May 2019, we have been married for 25 years and not only did God heal and change me dramatically, He also healed my husband and our marriage—in time.

I am so excited and honored to get to share the spiritual treasures God showed me on my journey to becoming a peaceful, godly wife.

Note— If you are dealing with extreme issues (unrepentant adultery, active drug/alcohol addictions, abuse, or severe uncontrolled mental health issues), please seek godly, experienced counsel and any resource you need for help ASAP.

These types of issues generally require more intensive and specialized assistance one-on-one.

When women are whole in Christ they are empowered by God to have divine relationship skills that greatly bless their marriages and other relationships.????

I’d Like to Help You Avoid the Pain My Husband and I Went Through!

Perhaps you could benefit from the years I have already spent and learn from my failures and successes and other wives’ stories that I share? Join thousands of other women from around the world whose lives have been changed by the power of God as they read about the treasures God has shown me on my 11-year journey.

I want to see Jesus heal as many women and marriages as possible!

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  • Check out my 4-Step Peace Plan to help you grow like crazy.
  • Check out my YouTube Channel for women for free encouragement and tips at “April Cassidy
  • Check out my books – For the cost of one lunch date with a friend, I share all the secret baby steps you need and all the wisdom I have learned over many years of thousands of hours of study, prayer, journaling, and wrestling with the Lord, myself.

You can save yourself a lot of time, frustration, and spinning your wheels if you learn from my many mistakes. And you can get to the really good stuff in marriage and with God a whole lot faster.

Don’t take my word for it, read the reviews and check out the first chapter of each book in the sneak peek!

The Peaceful Wife – God’s design for us as wives and women that I wish I understood 25 years ago when Greg and I first got married. It takes you through all the baby steps you need to grow as a wife so that you can begin to approach your husband in a way that inspires him and honors the Lord.

The Peaceful Mom – How to have peace with God, with yourself, with your thoughts, and with others. Ideal for moms but also a huge blessing to women in any season or stage of life.

If you need some direction to resources about specific topics, you are most welcome to leave a comment on a recent post. ❤️

Much love!


April Cassidy


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A = Admit you are a sinner and you can’t be perfect and holy enough in God’s eyes to be right with Him on your own. Turn away from your sin.

“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” Rom. 3:23

B = Believe that Jesus (God in the flesh) died on your behalf to pay the price for your sin and to give you a way to be right with God – to be forgiven. He lived the perfect life you couldn’t live. He died the death you deserve and rose from the dead in victory over sin, death, and the grave on your behalf!

“The wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life through Christ Jesus, our Lord.” Rom. 6:23

C = Confess that Jesus is your Lord – this means, Jesus is now your Master and you live your life for Him and His glory rather than for yourself. You say it out loud to others and you live it from now on.

“If you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with your heart you believe and are justified, and with your mouth you confess and are saved.” Rom. 10:9-10



Much love,

April Cassidy