Peacefulwife VIDEOS

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PEACEFULWIFE VIDEOS!

Jesus Is the Love of My Life Now!  How to Make Him Lord (7 minutes)

My Story (13 minutes) - before and after

My Husband Doesn’t Deserve MY Respect! (6 minutes)

How to Apologize for Disrespecting and Controlling Your Husband (7.5 minutes)

Responding to Our Husbands’ Constructive Criticism (5 minutes)

Some Reasons I was Prideful as a Wife for 15 years (5 minutes)

Advanced Self Control (5 minutes)

Nonverbal Disrespect is IMPORTANT! (7 minutes)

A Wife’s Biblical Submission (12 minutes)

The Gift of Modesty (14 minutes)

My Husband Is Not a Good Spiritual Leader (10 minutes)

My Level of Respect for My Husband Has Nothing to Do with Him (9 minutes)

Marriage is Not a Group Grade (8 minutes)

Withholding Sex in Marriage (5 minutes)

Stop Pursuing Him in the Wrong Ways  (13 minutes)

“My Husband Watches TV Too Much”  (7 minutes)

Making Big Decisions Together in Marriage (10 minutes)

For ALL of my Youtube videos – check out my youtube channel  “April Cassidy

28 Comments on “Peacefulwife VIDEOS”

  1. lynettewicks
    May 15, 2013 at 8:29 am #

    Thank you for your You tube videos they have helped me a lot to understand what I need to do in my marriage. Your videos really opened my eyes & heart. Keep up the good work. God Bless

  2. bekkisayler
    July 7, 2013 at 8:10 pm #

    April,
    My husband introduced your blog the other day and I cannot thank you enough for your transparency in your writing and during your videos. I see so much of my self as I read and listen and watch. I have always believed I was respectful and a wonderful wife… The Lord is using you to reveal how far off the mark I truly am.
    Thank you for being obedient to God and your husband by sharing your journey…

    • peacefulwife
      July 7, 2013 at 9:28 pm #

      Bekki,
      I am honored to meet you! :)

      I, too, thought I was an AWESOME Christian wife all those years – and was pretty shocked to find out how much work was needed in my heart.

      You are very welcome. I pray that God might use my story to make your journey into being a godly wife a smoother one. I am always glad to hear from you! :)

      Much love,
      April

  3. Heather Davis
    August 17, 2013 at 6:34 pm #

    I love your videos! I wish you would do more of them! Or maybe do podcasts that we can listen to online! Thanks!

    • peacefulwife
      August 17, 2013 at 11:15 pm #

      Heather,

      I have done a few podcasts. And I have done about 50 videos. You can find all of that at my Youtube channel, “April Cassidy.” :)
      I do hope to do some more! Thanks for the encouragement!

  4. Joanna
    October 4, 2013 at 2:33 pm #

    Hello April,
    I was introduced to your blog by a friend at church a few months ago and I have been truly blessed by it! I am currently on a unique path that the Lord has placed me on, and your blogs and videos about what it means to be a godly, submissive wife have been a wealth of information for me. When ever I am struggling spiritually, I find truth, comfort, and guidance by reading about your experiences and what the Lord has taught you. I sincerely believe the Holy Spirit has given you wisdom to share with other women. Thank you so much for your discipleship! -God Bless You.

    • peacefulwife
      October 4, 2013 at 3:03 pm #

      Joanna,

      It is my deepest prayer that God might use me to share His wisdom, design, love and truth with women. Thank you for being an answer to that prayer! :)

  5. margo whiteley
    November 4, 2013 at 6:11 pm #

    i have a question, i have a healthy friendship with my relatives but my husband thinks that i dont and that he feels i need to stop hanging out with mom, dad and all other siblings and at the right time Lord willing in the future that maybe we can spend time with them, but he wants me to deny spending any more time with them and cleave to husband. do you think that this could be something God is asking? i am having a hard tim believing that this is from God, but even if its not, do i submit anyway? i know i submit if he is wrong but not if it causes me to sin right? please help me, i have been praying about this a lot.

    • peacefulwife
      November 4, 2013 at 9:54 pm #

      Margo,

      It is wonderful to meet you!

      What issues does your husband have with your family? Is it possible that you are placing them above him in importance in your life?

      I would share your heart with him that you want to see your family at least once a month or something – but if he is insistent, it could be wise to honor his decision – particularly if he feels you give more allegiance and respect to them and allow them to influence your decisions and thinking more than you allow him to influence you.

      How is your marriage going in general?

      How long have you been married?

      How often are you spending time with your family?

      Does your husband feel disrespected by them or by you?

      What is his relationship with his family?

      What was his parents’ marriage like?

      What was your parents’ marriage like?

  6. margo whiteley
    November 5, 2013 at 12:55 pm #

    here is brief discription of my mom that my husband can agree with: She Loves the Lord, she has a strong walk with Jesus, a lot of faith, i have seen God use her to claim in Jesus name healings on people, So i know Gods favor is on her. My husband feels though that even though she is all that i stated above that they are materialistic and when i get back from hanging out with them that i act more that way for a few days, he also feels i come back with an attitude, which i dont see how it comes from my mom, i know its because he doesnt like me hanging out with her in the first place. He also thinks that she seperate us, that she is a stumbling block to him, this has more to do with my mom than anyone else, but he has takin it to the degree of everyone in family lets take a break, and whenever Gods says to talk with them again we will but until then cut all ties with brothers, mother, and dad. He has a great relationship with his mom, she is a widow for 7 years or longer, so he feels that he needs to take care of her because the word says to provide for the widows esp if they are in the family that the family members are the ones most obligated, so he has taken up that role, his mother is however possibly going to be engaged soon, so he agrees that if i have to cut all ties with my fam that he will do the same if i need him to. honestly i love his family but i have sensed that he hasnt loved mine to the extent i have loves his. he says he is doing this for my best interest and he thinks this is what God has made clear and what i have noticed as of late that he really has been growing in maturity, but for a while before as of late, he seemed to be falling off the path a lot. so it throws me through a loop. i only visit her once every two months, even less than that because he doesnt want me to, and if its more that , than its usually just an hour lunch i take on break at work, to visit her. but thats it. i dont run to her with my problems, I USED to a year and a half ago. but she would always tell me to go work it out with him. and gave great Godly advice, she wouldnt speak negative of him. He has always acted like this ever sense we got married, but before marriage he had no problem whatsoever with anyone in my family

    • peacefulwife
      November 5, 2013 at 7:22 pm #

      Margo,
      I would really hate to see you not have contact with your family. I would hope that believers could work these situations out.

      But – if your husband feels strongly, you can say, “I want to keep seeing my family. I love them. They are my family and always will be. I don’t want to have regrets if something should happen to them. But I love you and trust God to lead me through you. If you really believe this is necessary for a time, I will honor your request. But it will make me feel very sad.”

      God may change his heart. I would hope – within a few months?

      You can check out the post “Spiritual Authority” There is a portion of the notes from my class that talk about making an appeal to someone in spiritual authority over you.

  7. margo whiteley
    November 5, 2013 at 1:03 pm #

    our marriage is going well except for this, this is the whole reason we get in fights, when i talk to my mom or my brother, my brother has disrespected him before and my husband mentioned that he felt disrespected by my mom when he wouldnt listen to his advice on false prophets because she would listen to Joel Osteen, who we both feel is false prophet, thats the only instant that he has regarded that he felt disrespected by her, he had both mother and father growing up, they both believe/believed in Jesus and my parents split when i was4 and mom remarried wheni was 10 and lived with mom and step dad in my young teens up until 18. they are christian also, my dad is islamic and husband seems to like my dad the most, because my dad doesnt try to visit all the time and probably because he is receptive to hearing the word of God.

    • peacefulwife
      November 5, 2013 at 7:24 pm #

      Margo,

      Has your brother apologized?

      I cannot agree with Joel Osteen either. There is certainly false teaching in his preaching.

      So there were a few incidents when your mother or brother disrespected your husband – and they haven’t apologized? Your husband is still upset?

      • Margo Whiteley
        November 6, 2013 at 12:47 pm #

        they havent , because he hasnt addressed them , but i know that my brother wont even let himself be around them for them to adress the issue, i should tell my mom that he felt disrespected and maybe she can call him to say she is sorry, right now im fasting from food, honestly its hard. its been a few years sense i fasted, but trying to let God fight this battle for me through this sacrifice. please pray that God would bring peace in our families and let Gods will be done, i know God works out even evil intent for the good of those who love him and that God would give my husband pure heart and intentions if anything is not pure. thank you for your guidance! great to meet you! i like listening to how God reveals his word through you! God Bless sister!

        • peacefulwife
          November 6, 2013 at 6:27 pm #

          Margo,

          I love that you are fasting and praying and seeking God and His will and glory above all. That is the perfect place to be. I pray for your husband and family to have wisdom and for God to use all of this mess for something ultimately beautiful and good in His eyes.

          Much love to you! Please let me know how you are doing, :)

  8. margo whiteley
    November 5, 2013 at 1:12 pm #

    WONDERFUL TO MEET YOU TOO! :) HONESTLY YOUR A BREATH OF FRESH AIR!

    • peacefulwife
      November 5, 2013 at 7:25 pm #

      Margo,

      I pray that God might speak through me. Anything I get on my own is worthless. Only He has wisdom that is of real value.

  9. Sharon
    November 6, 2013 at 7:47 pm #

    Gods word is true and I have been praying day and night for over three years for God to heal my marriage. My husband and I have been married going on twenty fore years, my husband was a man of God when we were married, and I believe he thinks he still is, however he is so deceived and has left me for a girl who is twenty years younger then we are her name is T and she says she is a christen she is very deceiving and darning this time my husband has left me moved in with her three times each time dh has come back to me asking for forgiveness and has told me that the Lord spoke to his heart and told him to come home, each time he came home she threatened to kill herself, made up storeys about being in a car wreck, said she was dieing would send messages that God wanted him to be with and not me his wife. When my husband would tell her that he loved me and that he wanted to be with me she would text and say he was lying to himself and that he didn’t love me that he loved her she would follows us in our car she drove by our house day and night, and then he would leave again. God is so good that he has watched over my heart and I forgive her its almost like she bully’s dh into seeing her and leaving she has plenty of money so she is constantly doing something for Aaron now she has gotten him a apartment and she stays there with him even though she has her own house. When hes with her he doesn’t talk to me, I don’t want anything bad to happen to her I just want God to remove her from our lives and bring my husband home for good, our children are grown and on there own and thy and our grand children are upset. Please pray for her removal and the return of my husband. I love dh and I believe in the covenant of marriage. I forgive my husband and I believe God made us one it would so bless me if you would take a moment and pray, thank you for your time I am very grateful that you read my letter love your sister in the Lord. Please stand with me in prayer for Restoration of my marriage and the removal of this woman once and for all please know that with Gods grace I don’t hate her and I pray for her as well I just want her and all of her tricks removed from our lives.

    • peacefulwife
      November 8, 2013 at 9:30 am #

      Sharon,

      Of course I will pray with you – for your husband, this woman and for yourself. I pray for God’s glory in your marriage covenant and for His glory in this woman’s life, that she may live a life that pleases and honors God and find a love for herself that is appropriate and right, not adultery.

      I can add you to my prayer team’s prayer list if you would like. :)

    • margo whiteley
      November 8, 2013 at 12:54 pm #

      Sharon, i am praying that God restores your marriage and open your husbands eyes to the precious women of God you are! you are not being decieved by the devils tactics which i praise God for, i can see Jesus through your actions, i dont know if you have read the book of Hosea in the bible but if you havent read it lately i know that it would move your heart because Hosea the prophet went through something very similar to you, and God sees your crys and hears your prayers and he is blessing you abundantly in the Kingdom of heaven because of your rich faith in God and for your trust in him when all this is going on in your life. im praying for you! and i am so moved by this, God is using you so powerfully in the situation. James 5:16 NLT Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results!!!!! GOD is taking care of the enemy is trying to kill steal and destroy your marriage. 1 peter 5:6-10 Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time:Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.
      Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:Whom resist stedfast in the faith, knowing that the same afflictions are accomplished in your brethren that are in the world. But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, settle you.Isaiah 41:10 Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
      I love you sister and im praying for you!

  10. margo whiteley
    November 8, 2013 at 9:18 am #

    Thank you soo much for your prayers! I Praise God for meeting you! your such a blessing! I love you and thank you and im praying for you and your family, have a BLESSED day!

  11. Raquel
    November 22, 2013 at 12:45 am #

    God bless… Hey the Lord is amazing, I was praying to the Lord , to teach me how to treat my husband. Truly my prayers are being answer just by reading and watching your video. Praise the lord ¡¡

    • peacefulwife
      November 22, 2013 at 6:30 am #

      Raquel,

      I’m so glad to meet you!

      These are the things I WISH I had known 19 years ago. :) I’m so glad it was an answer to prayer for you. What a blessing! Thanks for letting me know!

  12. Mandy
    January 3, 2014 at 1:38 pm #

    Thank you so much for this! You have no idea how much I need this God is using you in such a powerful way! I am so thankful God helped me find this. I honestly believe my marriage that has been a train wreak for the past 2 years has just made a turn for the better! Just from reading and listening to what The Lord is saying thou you! Thank you for helping me see what I need to do and what I need to change to make my marriage work. How to stop blaming my husband and stop trying to change him. Thank you from the bottom of my heart! Thank you.

    • peacefulwife
      January 3, 2014 at 3:49 pm #

      Mandy,

      What an answer to my prayers!! Thank you for letting me know!!

      May God richly bless your walk with Him and your marriage for His glory!

  13. The Vintage Couple
    January 28, 2014 at 11:13 pm #

    I love your blog. I am a newly married Christian homemaker in my mid-twenties. I can see myself really benefiting from your blog. I really enjoyed your blog post on modesty especially.

    Blessings,
    Aisha

    • peacefulwife
      January 29, 2014 at 6:49 am #

      Aisha,
      You are most welcome! Congratulations on your marriage! :)

      I can’t wait to get to know you better and to see all that God has in store for you. Thank you for sharing.

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