Why the “Rapid Fire” Method of Talking Doesn’t Work with Our Men.

My husband actually asked me to write this post and it is an honor to write about this topic! Greg and I have been talking about how differently men and women process, speak and think during conversations. What I am about to share with you is REALLY FOREIGN to our female minds – but it […]

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Something that Christian Men Wish We Knew about Them

This is a guest post from www.peacefulsinglegirl.wordpress.com (my other blog) this week for the SINGLE ladies.  It is a single Christian man’s response to a question I asked him after Tuesday’s post (Why Asking About His “Five Year Plan” Can Backfire).  I believe that the way we treat our men reflects the same level of respect […]

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What Was I Thinking???

My real husband and myself last May on our anniversary One of my readers, a single Christian guy, commented on this comment of mine – my words are in blue.  I thought his question was a good one.  Here is my attempt to describe what on earth I was thinking those first 15 years of […]

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A Question for the Husbands

I am looking for husbands to share things their wives do or could do that are respectful to them.  If you are willing to share, you may leave a comment on this post. When wives are first learning about respect and submission, it can be VERY confusing what respect even means for many of us. […]

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Man and woman standing in a grassy, flat yard in front of a red barn

How Husbands Often Respond to Their Wives at the Beginning of This Journey

These are some of my observations.  I wish I had large scale statistics and all the resources of Shaunti Feldhahn – but I don’t! This is a process for wives and it is a process for our husbands, as well. AT FIRST Forgiveness  (if their wife repents to them) – most husbands are very forgiving, […]

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The Voice in His Head

by the Respected Husband On Sunday, September 23rd, the Peacefulwife ran a guest post by Kayla Gulick titled My Demon. In the article, Kayla described how all of the voices in her head accuse her husband of the worst. This prompted a discussion between the Peacefulwife and me. She then asked me about whether a […]

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