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Every wife wants a strong, vibrant, romantic marriage. But it turns out, marriage can be extremely hard. Especially when we don’t have the right tools to pour healing into the relationship.

You shouldn’t have to feel alone on your journey to discover who God created you to be as a woman and wife and to experience spiritual oneness with Him fully.

You just need someone who can shine a little light on the right pathway.

THE PEACEFUL WIFE PLAN

1. Be the hero your marriage needs by seeking Christ and your own spiritual healing in Him first. Don’t wait on your husband to change.
2. Get rid of toxic old ways relating and receive a brand new Spirit, identity, and perspective from Him.
3. Discover His beautiful design for you as a woman and wife and begin to live every day in His amazing spiritual abundance for you.
4. Watch Jesus turn your painful story, trials, and relationships into something beautiful for your ultimate good and His glory that will bless you and many others.

Then be amazed Jesus empowers you to help set many other captives free so that they can come into His kingdom, as well!

You can choose to have a saving relationship with Jesus today to begin finding life-changing healing for yourself spiritually!

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I’m thrilled to share that I got to be part of a panel of Christian marriage bloggers/authors on a guest post for Woman of Noble Character.

 

Check out the post:

How to Have a Thriving Christian Marriage: Marriage Advice from 13 Experts.

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Almost every wife experiences this at some point or another. Your man is busy with other things and you really want to connect with him. Sometimes he may not have a choice about how busy he is due to work, a crisis, an illness, or another emergency. Other times, he may spend a lot of time hunting, fishing, spending time with friends, renovating the house, watching TV, playing guitar, running, playing sports, or playing video games.

It’s easy as a wife to feel upset in such a scenario. Really upset. Ignored. Unimportant. And unloved.

For many wives, we value verbally and emotionally connecting with them and spending significant time together each day. That desire to be with our husbands is a good thing.

We feel secure and loved when we feel like we have priority in their schedules.

The desire, itself, is not the problem. How we deal with this desire is what is important.

The Temptation

It’s easy to listen to the smooth voice of the enemy when we feel like our husbands aren’t spending enough time with us and to begin to make negative assumptions and accusations like:

• He doesn’t love me! If he loved me, he would make time for me.
• He’s a jerk!
• He should want to spend time with me as much as I want to spend time with him or he is wrong.
• Our marriage is doomed.
• I should probably just leave if I am such a low priority to him.

When we feel unloved, we will be tempted to react in the flesh.

“We are most tempted to sin when we are sinned against,” (Gary Thomas says, in “Sacred Marriage”). And I would add to that, even if we simply feel sinned against or assume we are being sinned against, we are more tempted to sin, even if we are not actually being sinned against. Sometimes, it can be difficult, at first, to discern this important difference.

There are a lot of things that could be going on when we feel unloved:

• Our husbands may simply have a different love language. They really are showing love in their own ways, and we aren’t feeling or receiving it.
• Our husbands may have different personalities and different needs/desires for alone time/recharging/hobbies than we do. For example, introverts tend to need a lot more time to themselves to recharge than extroverts. It doesn’t mean that the introvert hates his/her spouse when he/she needs some time alone. Introverts can love their spouses deeply but still need some time to pull away alone. Honestly, we all need some time alone to spend with God and to get our bearings.
• Our flesh may be weak at the moment, which makes everything seem much worse – Our hormones are going crazy, we are sick, we are exhausted, or overwhelmed. Sometimes our emotions can mislead us and are not always trustworthy.
• We may simply have a misunderstanding because we assume our husbands should think/feel/react just like we do and/or act like women. They may actually love us and there may not even be a real problem. It may just be that we have different perspectives, paradigms, ways of connecting, and expectations.
• We could be sinning in some way. We may be idolizing our own happiness. It is possible that we could be sinning in some way with our motives, with our thoughts, we could be believing lies about God, our husbands, or ourselves. We may be idolizing our husbands. We may be codependent, expecting our husbands to be responsible for our spiritual and emotional wellbeing that are really our responsibility.
• Our husbands may feel disrespected by us and have an unloving knee-jerk reaction to what we did to them. Or we might both feel hurt by each other in some way.
• Our husbands may be unable to spend more time with us because of obligations they have. If they have no choice about having to be at work a lot, being deployed, being sick, being injured, or having to do a lot of work on the house that must be done, they may be trying to take good care of us and the family.
• Our husbands may be stressed and may need a bit of time to recoup.
• Our husbands may be depressed or overwhelmed about something.
• Our husbands may truly have wrong priorities. They may be abdicating their responsibilities as husbands. Maybe they really have a TV or video game addiction. Or maybe they really are being selfish.

Let’s be sober and aware of the enemy’s schemes here, sisters!

Acting in the Flesh Leads to Long-Term Damage

If we allow our sinful natures to take over, we will approach our men in destructive ways that sabotage the very intimacy we crave with our husbands. And – when we make negative assumptions and embrace unfounded accusations – we are very possibly believing lies, not truth. We are opening the door to the enemy to gain a foothold and create division and strife where there may not even truly be a problem. That is tragic!

Every wise woman builds her house,
but a foolish one tears it down with her own hands.

Prov. 14:1

Yes, it may be tempting to act in the flesh in anger, to lose my temper, to cry, to scream, and to give full vent to an ocean of negative emotions. It is tempting to let my thoughts and fears run wild and to get rid of any filter on my mouth. But even if the worst case scenario was true about my husband, me acting without any self-control is only going to make things worse, not better.

I may think, “If he could just know how much it hurts me that he isn’t spending time with me, he would change his mind and spend hours with me being loving, romantic, and sweet to me, pampering me and showering me with attention, affection, and conversation. The louder I am, the more upset I am, the more I cry, the more I scream, the more I insult him, the quicker he will rush to apologize and make everything up to me.”

“He needs to know how upset I am!”

But does he really need to know this?

Does he really need to see me have an unholy tantrum? Does he really need to see me at my absolute worst? I may think, “Well, I need the freedom to be myself with my husband.” But what I am really saying if I say this is, “I want the freedom to be my old sinful self. I want the freedom to destroy my husband and marriage.”

Let’s stop a minute and seek God’s wisdom.

God calls me (and all believers) to crucify my old sinful self and to put on my new self in Christ. He calls me to act in the power of the Holy Spirit and to pour His Life and healing into my relationships. He gives me freedom from sin and freedom to walk in His holiness, divine love, and godly strength. He gives me the freedom to bless and build up my husband and marriage.

What do I want long term?

1. To tear my husband down and to repel him?
2. To inspire him to want to spend more time with me and build him up?

These are two very different goals which would require two completely opposite approaches.

There is a high price to pay for indulging in my sinful flesh.

If freak out, react in fear, try to control him, scream, argue, act like a prosecuting attorney, rant and rage for a long time, insult him, hate him in my heart, stomp around the house, slam doors, make demands, and/or pitch a fit, what messages am I sending to my husband?

Here are some things he might think:

• She is not emotionally stable.
• Wow, she has no control over her emotions and temper.
• She’s scary.
• How am I going to feel safe around her or trust her now?
• The last thing I want to do is reward her right now by doing what she wants after she just treated me so badly.
• I feel attacked.
• Why would I want to spend more time with someone who treats me like this?
• I feel completely overwhelmed by her negative emotions, like I am drowning and need to get to land ASAP.
• This doesn’t feel like love.
• The corner of the roof is looking more and more appealing.
  • Better to live on the corner of a roof than to share a house with a nagging wife. Prov. 21:9
  • A quarrelsome wife is like the dripping of a leaky roof in a rainstorm; restraining her is like restraining the wind or grasping oil with the hand. Prov. 27:15-16

It’s not worth it.

A few minutes of allowing the flesh to spew unchecked can cost weeks or months in my relationship. Rebuilding trust after something like this takes a long time. A husband will back away for his own emotional/spiritual safety if I act like this.

A Better Way

When we find ourselves seething with resentment, unfounded accusations, bitterness, and negative assumptions, that is not a good time to talk to our husbands.

Yes, our emotions are screaming that we should RIGHT NOW! But God’s Spirit will prompt us gently to go pray and spend some time with God before we make a mistake we will regret.

Connect to the Right Power Source

Emotions are important, but they are simply indicators on our dashboard. They let us know something may be wrong. But they are not THE source of absolute truth. We need to pay attention to our emotions and examine what is behind them. But we don’t want to be slaves to our emotions. They are not always accurate.

God’s Word and His Spirit are always dependable.

It can be so helpful to journal our feelings and lay out our issues before the Lord. He can help us identify temptations and wrong thinking. He can give us wisdom we need to approach our husbands in productive ways. He wants us to tap into His Spirit for our power source and not try to be godly wives in our own strength.

Depending on the Holy Spirit

If we are believers in Christ, we have the Holy Spirit. He is the only One who can completely meet the deepest spiritual and emotional needs of our hearts.

He can even give us the ability to respond with patience, gentleness, kindness, and self-control even when our husbands truly are wrong. And God can give us His wisdom and perspective to realize what is true when we feel unloved, but our husbands really do love us. He can talk us down off of the cliff so we don’t drop a nuclear bomb in our marriage and destroy it when all we had to do was respectfully share our desires.

No matter what our husbands do or don’t do, we can respond in the wisdom and power of the Spirit of God, if we are yielded to Him.

Our husbands are much more likely to respond favorably to us if we respond in the power of the Holy Spirit – with self-control, gentleness, kindness, and respect.

I also like to change up Philippians 4:12-13 a bit for this situation: 

The original:

I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength. Phil. 4:12-13

My version:

I know what it is to not feel I have enough of my husband’s attention, and I know what it is to have a lot of his attention. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether I feel loved in the moment or not, whether I am getting what I want from my husband or not. I can do all this through Him who gives me strength.

Some things that draw my husband to me:

• My peace and joy in Christ.
• My genuine smile and pleasant, friendly tone of voice.
• My consistent ability to be a safe place for him emotionally.
• My asking for what I desire respectfully.
  • Lots of times, that is all we need to do. It really is that simple.
  • “Hey, Honey, I’d love to spend some time together sometime today.”
  • I will often see much better results if I focus on asking for what I would like in a positive way, rather than getting upset about what I don’t like.
• My understanding and patience when he truly is in a situation where he can’t be with me as much as I would like.
• My willingness to encourage him to do some things he enjoys sometimes, even if it is without me, as long as it is not sin. We all need some time to ourselves, time to work on hobbies, time to develop our talents, or time to connect with other friends. Different people have different needs for recharging by themselves.
• Sharing my feelings in a humble, direct, vulnerable way calmly and without blaming him.
• My spiritual maturity to respond with poise, self-control, dignity, self-respect, and respect for him, even if I don’t get what I want every time.

Or, we may be able to join our husbands in what they are doing and bond that way:

• Sit with him quietly while he is working on a project around the house, smile sometimes, get him some drinks/snacks.
• Cuddle with him in a friendly way and read a book while he watches TV or plays video games.
• If he is open to it – go hunting with him, watch a TV show with him, ask him to teach you to play his favorite video game so you can play, too.

 

NOTE – Please keep in mind that if you have been reacting in the flesh rather than in the Spirit for a long time (months or years), your husband is going to probably need quite a bit of time to feel safe with you emotionally again. He will need to see over many months that this new approach is permanent and it is not just another manipulation attempt. Try to be patient with him even if you feel he is not very supportive as you change. Most husbands will feel a bit gun-shy and skeptical for a time until they really become convinced that these beautiful new changes are real.

Here is my YouTube video on this topic.

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How have you learned to handle times when you want more of your husband’s time and attention in productive ways? We’d love to hear the wisdom God has given you.

Is God speaking to you about this subject? We’d love to hear your thoughts and insights.

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Ladies,

What are some topics you’d like to see me cover in the coming year? I’d love to hear your suggestions and thoughts.

Some areas we have covered in the past:

• Control and giving up control
• Insecurity
• Righteous anger and jealousy
• Sinful jealousy
• Security and Identity in Christ
• Don’t want to lose my voice, my power, or my identity in my marriage
• Prayer
• Peace
• Spiritual Healing
• Idolatry of husband, children, marriage, romance, happiness…
• Gossip
• Dealing with a difficult mother-in-law
• Respect for husbands
• Respect for self
• Dying to self
• Confronting our husband’s sin
• Biblical Submission (honoring our husband’s leadership, the limits of it, and how it is not slavery, being a doormat, or passivity)
• Godly femininity 
• Encouraging our husband to lead
• How to influence a husband for Christ
• Revenge
• Bitterness
• Forgiveness
• People pleasing
• Perfectionism
• Malice against our husband
• A Fellow Wife’s posts – a wife, with a very controlling mother herself, who wanted much more attention and affection from her husband and was terrified to give up bitterness and codependency or to give her husband space, at first…
• Radiant’s posts – a wife who tended to be too respectful and too passive for many years, who also experienced great spiritual oppression and physical affliction received God’s healing. She also has some posts about dealing with a critical, perfectionistic, or negative husband, and addresses being a “trophy wife”
• Grace Alone’s posts about desperately wanting a baby with a  husband who decided he no longer wanted children.
• Separation
• Separated wives
• Divorce
• Boundaries with other men
• Healthy VS unhealthy relationships
• Dealing with criticism
• Conflict
• Sex
• Body image 
• Identifying lies we have embraced

 

You may have some other general topics on your mind that we haven’t covered. Or maybe you’d like us to revisit an older topic with a new spin? Let me know what you would like to see us discuss in the comments! And also, if you have a story you’d like to share as a possible post about how the Lord has worked in your life and/or marriage, I’d love to hear about that, as well. You can either share this in the comments or on my Contact page.

 

Much love to each of you!

April

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Here is a helpful list of all of the marriage videos that will be offered for the conference January 4th:

Living out your Faith in your Marriage and Parenting by Bridget Childress: Daily we have the chance to impact those in our lives with our faith. In this workshop we will cover ways to keep our spiritual cups filled with practical applications for our marriage and our motherhood journey.

Five Ways to Avoid An Argument by Cheryl Carter: In this session participants will learn five ways to avoid an argument by enhancing their communication skills with their spouse. Come and learn how to express your deepest thoughts to your partner and have a meaningful dialogue. Even those who have been married for a long time will enjoy this practical session.

Bridging the Money and Marriage Gap by Danielle Tate: Are you trying to figure out how to keep your family on track financially but struggling to get your spouse on board? Maybe they are uninterested, passive, or just plain don’t care, but it could be more than that. Learn strategies for stress-free money conversations with your spouse plus ways they can get involved without overwhelming them.

Romance for the Exhausted by Hal & Melanie Young: How do you find time for romance when you have kids? And work? And everything else? The littles get up at the crack of dawn and the older kids won’t go to sleep at a decent hour. Even if you had time, how can you find the energy? Don’t let the busy-ness of this stage of life turn the two of you into co-workers and roommates instead of best friends and lovers. In this session, Hal and Melanie, parents of eight, will share ideas that will help you find romance in the midst of the exhaustion!

Your Marriage and Your Kids by Hal & Melanie Young: Does your marriage affect your kids? You bet. It affects them profoundly. It impacts their security, their identity, and their sense of worth. Beyond that, our marriage toolkit will be the one our kids reach for in their own marriages. Come get some new tools for your box and learn five ways to tune up your marriage to make it even better for you and your children.

Marriage Secrets From 40 Years by Kathie Morrissey: Marriage is God’s design, but the devil is out to destroy marriages, so we have to be purposeful and intentional about working on our marriage. Learn secrets to make your marriage not only last through the years, but also thrive.

Laughing Again in Your Marriage: How to Communicate with Your Spouse When It Feels Like You’re Speaking Different Languages by Micah Klug: When was the last time you really laughed with your husband? (I’m talking belly aching laughing)! With so much stress and pressure trying to balance your work, kids, the house (just to name a few things), the last thing you want to do is put your relationship with your husband on the back burner. Micah wants to share with you the same method she and her husband use to communicate together to eliminate misunderstandings, avoid arguments and contention, and really laugh together (and sometimes at each other) so you can rekindle your marriage and prioritize the relationship you have with your husband.

How to Help Your Spouse When You Have No Idea What to Do by Michelle Huddleston: Do I speak, or should I remain silent? Surely I can fix my husband, right? I expect him to… and the list goes on. If you find yourself in a spot where your spouse needs help but you have no idea what to do, Michelle wants to share four proven ways to keep your helping from hurting.

Marriage Goals: The Why and How by Mike & Carlie Kercheval:  Don’t let another day go by without setting goals for your marriage. In our workshop we will show you: why goal setting should be at the top of your priority list as a married couple, what goals you should be setting, how to get started, and how to stay motivated when you don’t meet your goals.

Meaningful Talk – How True Connection Can Transform Your Communication in Less Than a Second by Keith Dorscht: Every marriage and family experiences communication problems. There is a scientific solution that begins working in less than a second. As a psychotherapist Keith Dorscht has successfully used this technique 1000’s of times to re-open, repair and strengthen lines of communication. When this approach is practiced the brain is able to travel through a three-step process that ultimately ends in compassionate responses and interactions.

Becoming a Peaceful Wife by April Cassidy: April thought her husband was the one causing all the problems for over fourteen years of marriage. If only he would change like she wanted him to, everything would be great! Was she ever shocked to discover that there were things on her end of the relationship she needed to work on, too. In this workshop, April will share a bit of her story with you and some easy, practical tips she’s learned that you can begin to apply today to strengthen your own marriage. Once you begin to learn this new “language,” you may be amazed at how much more peace you both have.

I am so excited to officially share with you A New Year, Your Best Year: 2019 Conference for Moms!

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The engaging and dynamic workshops will encourage and equip you in the following areas of your life:

• marriage
• parenting/motherhood
• goal setting
• planning/time management
• health/fitness
• finances/budgeting
• household organization
• homemaking
• meal planning/prep
• faith
• simplification/minimalism
• family life
• self-care
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There will be about 25 videos sessions released each day from January 4th through the 9th.

This unique conference is 100% ONLINE {yay for no travel costs or logistics to deal with}. This means you can watch and learn from your home {or anywhere that you have internet access}, in your pajamas, at a time that is suitable for you! Attendees also receive LIFETIME access to ALL conference workshops! This means that you don’t have to feel stressed or pressured to watch as many workshops as you can right now! Watch what you want, when you want, and know that your workshop videos will never expire!

 

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1. Visit the website and purchase a conference pass.
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3. On 1/4/19, attendees will receive an email with a link to access the conference along with instructions on accessing the swag bag and conference community group.

 

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I’m doing something new and exciting this coming January 4th-9th, and I would love to invite you to join me.

I am taking part in my first online women’s conference!

It’s called…

A New Year, Your Best Year: 2019 Conference for Moms

I love this because you can watch the sessions you are interested in at your own pace from the comfort of your home (or your phone) when you have time. Almost none of us have time to spend a weekend or a week away from our families, responsibilities, and jobs to go to an amazing, uplifting women’s conference. What could be better for busy women today than a conference that caters to our schedules and one where we can attend from home?

This conference is for women in every life circumstance, not just moms.

There will be over 175 different video sessions available to those who purchase tickets with over 90 expert speakers.

• Early bird tickets are $15
• Regular tickets are $20

Those who buy tickets will have lifetime access to these exclusive videos on a variety of topics:

• Goals: 14 sessions from various speakers
• Faith: 24
• Marriage: 11
• Organization/Homemaking: 10
• Health/Fitness: 11
• Simplification/Minimalism: 4
• Planning/Time Management: 19
• Finances: 10
• Parenting/Motherhood: 36
• Self-Care: 20
• Meal Planning/Prep: 7
• Family Life: 11

Some topics are Christian faith-based, others are not.

I will have two exclusive video sessions during the conference:

• Becoming a Peaceful Wife
• 5 Keys to Real Peace with God

You can watch the videos as they are scheduled online the week of January 4th-9th and interact with the various speakers in real time. Or you can watch the videos later and enjoy them as you have time.

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Hope to see ya there! <3

 

 

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Ladies,

I just want to touch base with you and let you know that I am planning to take a break from online ministry for the next 3-4 weeks. I want to be able to focus on the Lord and on learning all He has for me to learn personally during this time of grief. I also want to focus on my husband and our children as they are processing a lot of very tough things and I want to be there to support them and pray for them as much as I can.

Our kids have more questions than ever about spiritual things. They are both believers – but I know God wants to help them go much deeper during this time. And they have really important questions with which all of us, at some time or another, must wrestle. This is a very good and necessary thing! It is in the most painful times that we are most open to spiritual growth.

I am excited about what God is doing in us all and what He will do through these trials. I don’t want to miss out on any blessing He wants to share with us in this time of trial and grief.

We will be celebrating Christmas without my Grandma and without Greg’s parents for the first time. That will be very, very different for all of us. And then both children have birthdays soon after Christmas. I want to be fully present and able to enjoy all of the wonderful blessings we DO have even though there will be sadness this year, too. And I want us to be able to hash through and express our grief in healthy ways.

We also have a lot of practical things to attend to regarding Greg’s mom’s estate, as well. I want to support and honor Greg and be the wife he needs right now in this incredibly difficult season.

I thank you all for your prayers, love, and support. You are amazing!

May the Lord help us all to slow down and to really focus on what is most important in His eyes in these last few weeks of 2018 and into 2019. May we align ourselves with His heart and His priorities. May we be ready to grow and to be receptive to all of the refining and pruning God has for us so that we can grow stronger in our faith and shine more brightly for Jesus. May He continue to bring about a Great Awakening in His people all around the world and may He bring a huge harvest into His kingdom in these last days!

Much love and Merry Christmas!