I’ve REALLY Messed Up – How Do I Make Things Right with God?

The guilt of sin can be soul-crushing and overwhelming. Sin always gives birth to death and destruction.  Death of our relationship with God.  Death of our relationships with people. It can cause HUGE anxiety, worry, dread and fear in our lives.  It can even make us physically sick. What if you are stuck in sin […]

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What is True Love?

This is a guest post from Daniel at God’s Help For Marriage. We live in a culture that praises the fairytale concept of true love. Hollywood would have us believe that love is all about that moment when you first meet and there is a “magical connection” and you “just know” that this is the […]

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“Can I ‘Have It All’?”

From a wife and sister in the Lord, Veronica Alejar, from the Philippines – with her permission: I used to think that I “had it all”. I was a TV news anchor/mother of 3/wife/businesswoman-baker, etc. etc. People always stopped to ask how I could multi-task and well, have it all! I thought that I was […]

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"My Husband Wants to Go WHERE!?!?!?!" – From the Archives

From a reader. When we submit ourselves fully to Christ and live by faith and obedience to Him – life is such an adventure.  We never know what He might do!  THANK YOU to this precious wife for sharing her story and to God be all the glory!!!!! BAD NEWS I can’t even begin to […]

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Humility is Beautiful

A HUGE key to a successful and intimate relationship with God or with my husband is my own humility.  My sinful and arrogant pride (thinking I know best, I know better than God, I know better than my husband, I have greater wisdom than anyone else) repels my husband, God and everyone else around me! […]

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What Do You Admire about Your Man?

Ladies, I would like to do a post on Sunday for Father’s Day about how much we appreciate the men in our lives. I would love your help! If you would, please answer one or more of the following questions for me to possibly use in a post: 1. The things I admire most about […]

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Happy 19th Anniversary, Greg!

Greg and I were married on May 28, 1994 at 3:00pm. We had over 300 people crowded into our home church near Columbia, SC, where Greg’s dad was the pastor and he performed a beautiful ceremony for us. We had NO CLUE what was ahead. How I wish that I had understood then what I […]

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I Need Some Help, Please!

Ladies and Gentlemen, A Christian single blogger wrote today about what a bad job the church and Christians are doing talking up the good things about marriage.  He says singles are already afraid of getting married and they already know marriage is really hard – and that what they need to hear is what we […]

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Time for a Pop Quiz

The phone rings. It’s unexpected bad news. What goes through your mind first? YESTERDAY: I got a call from my boss.  My hours are being cut from 12 guaranteed hours/week (sometimes I work up to 20-23 hours/week as a pharmacist) to 3 hours/week in 2 weeks. Totally unexpected. We are still waiting to hear if […]

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Biblical Submission and a Minivan

I AM COMPLETELY FULFILLED AND AT PEACE WITH MY LIFE If something happened to me today – this is really shocking that I can actually say this – I have no regrets!  I used to be consumed with regrets.  But now, I know that if I were to meet Jesus today – I know that […]

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