When Your Husband Is Not Physically Attracted to You

  WARNING, LADIES: This post is a big-time trigger alert for some of you. If the thought of issue causes too much distress, and you are not emotionally/spiritually ready to read about it – please, please just skip it for now and focus on your identity in Christ and spiritual healing for yourself.  I am […]

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Don’t Wait!!

A wife – who had become a widow very unexpectedly that week – wrote to me awhile back, thanking me for my blog. She was so thankful for the two months she had where she had learned to change how she treated her husband and that he died knowing she respected and honored him. Many […]

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"I Was SURE I Would Never Make My Husband into an Idol!"

  A reminder – please always check anything anyone (including myself) says against Scripture and remember that ultimately we must each seek to do what we believe God desires us to do and we are each responsible for our own decisions.   From a dear sister in Christ whose marriage is facing many extreme difficulties […]

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"I Don't Think My Husband Loves Me – How Can I Become a Godly Woman and Wife?"

I am not sure if I have made this really important point clear enough: The path on this journey with your relationship with God to become a godly woman and wife will be basically the same whether your husband loves you or whether he doesn’t at the moment. Let’s just stop to look at our […]

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“I Won’t Give up My Bitterness!”

We Have All Been Hurt by Others: Sin against us HURTS. Deeply.  Sin is always wrong. God always hates sin. He hates every sin people commit against us – whether it is in thought, motive, word, or deed. He hates the sin people commit against Him. He hates our sin, too – even the ones […]

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When You Feel Deprived in Your Marriage

Whether you are feeling deprived of attention, love, affection, sex (and yes, a lot of women desire sex more than their husbands do), or anything else – I believe there are some steps godly wives can take to move forward in a productive direction. (If there are severe issues in your marriage, please see the disclaimer […]

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God Changes a Wife’s Heart During a Financial Crisis

  From a precious sister in Christ – the same one God is taking from major fear to strong faith: I am writing to you again to share one more incident that took place yesterday and through which God spoke to me. I am excited when there is even a very small progress in the […]

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“Why Does She Get a Better Husband Than I Have?”

From a precious sister in Christ regarding the issue of our husbands praying with us. I’m so thankful for her willingness to allow me to share her thoughts: Just had one of those random thoughts regarding this issue, may have come from breathing chicken feathers while cleaning the hen house, lol! I was thinking about […]

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The Dirty Garage Epiphany

  From a wife who has experienced great difficulties in her marriage and has continued to abide in Christ: You know, I was cleaning out our garage today (part of me working on my own habits), and it taught me some lessons. One was on that question that always pops up… “How do I respect […]

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“He Loves Me. He Loves Me Not.” – Finding Victory over Feelings of Insecurity

(This post is not for women whose husbands are abusive, are involved in unrepentant infidelity or criminal activity, are initiating divorce with their wives, have uncontrolled mental health problems, or have active addictions to drugs/alcohol right now.) Thankfully, most husbands are relatively decent men who truly love their wives and long for their wives to […]

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