7 Comments on “Help for Porn Problems”

  1. cindy
    July 20, 2015 at 6:07 am #

    Hi.
    I suppose you have heard this time and time again. I caught my husband for the second time viewing porn pictures of woman, men and children after promising that he will never do it again.
    He has once again promised he will never view it again and show me how a wife should be treated in giving me more love and affection. But his promise to show me has not happened. I am not sure if he is still watching porn pictures as he tells me but his promise to treat me better like a wife should be treated hasn’t happened. And when I approach the subject he says he doesn’t want to lose me…..am I fighting a losing battle?
    Because of this I feel betrayed, unloved and now have become jelous even towards his daughter from a previous relationship he had. She doesn’t want to speak to him but from his ex whatsapp profile he collects all his daughters pictures and puts it on his home screen. He has two phones. I feel at least one of his phones can have a picture of me. He was into porn before we got married and promised me he won’t do it again. After that I accepted his hand in marriage and to my disgust, a year later I found him watching porn again and heard it had began again before we got married. He knew how i felt about it and if i had known i would never of accepted his hand in marriage as i believe very strongly in my vows but can’t accept his betrayal……He won’t go for council g

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