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Nikka’s Second Interview with Her Husband

At a Family Outing in Pampanga – Feb 2012 Nikka Alejar is my dear friend and sister in Christ from the Philippines who has started a blog www.peacefulwifephilippines.blogspot.com.  I plan to feature a post from her once a week on Wednesdays.  I am so thrilled about what God is doing in her life and marriage.  What a… Continue reading Nikka’s Second Interview with Her Husband

Nikka’s First Interview with Her Husband after Beginning Her Journey

      Nikka’s husband, Dong, and their youngest child A guest post from my dear friend, Nikka, who began this journey in September of 2013 – www.peacefulwifephilippines.blogspot.com ——————————— When I asked my husband if I could interview him, he said, “Okay, but you will not like what I will say. It might not even… Continue reading Nikka’s First Interview with Her Husband after Beginning Her Journey

Silent Nagging – by Nikka

Baptism of our 3rd child – Nov 2010 From my amazing friend and sister in the Lord, Nikka.  You can find her blog at www.peacefulwifephilippines.blogspot.com.  She began this journey to become a godly wife 9-1-2013. I used to think I was the picture of a kind and respectful wife. You see… I did not nag.  … Continue reading Silent Nagging – by Nikka

4 Approaches When You Think Your Husband Doesn’t Care

In the last post, we talked about four primary reasons why your husband may seem to not care about you. It is critical that you can identify which of the four root causes is the issue in your marriage so that you can decide how to approach the issue wisely. It takes the discernment and… Continue reading 4 Approaches When You Think Your Husband Doesn’t Care

A Wife Shares Her “Aha” Moment

This sweet wife has given me permission to share her response to the post on Monday, “How Can I Tell If God Is Working in My Life or If I Am Trying to Do This in My Own Power?”   This is just an important post! This was the hardest thing on this journey for… Continue reading A Wife Shares Her “Aha” Moment

“If I Respect and Honor My Husband, Then God Owes Me a Godly, Loving, Wonderful Husband, Right?”

For wives who have a history of being controlling, sometimes we  latch on to God’s commands to us to respect our husbands and to honor their headship and spiritual authority in the marriage and assume that if we do these things for God, then “God owes us,” as if it is a business transaction. I… Continue reading “If I Respect and Honor My Husband, Then God Owes Me a Godly, Loving, Wonderful Husband, Right?”

A Beautiful, Feminine, Godly Example of How to Handle Conflict

ADMINISTRATIVE NOTE: I will be taking a break from the blog this Wednesday through this coming Sunday while my children are out of school. I’ll miss y’all! But I hope to check back in next week. 🙂 ———————– A wife allowed me to share her comments from “Godly Femininity – Part 1.”  Thank you, my… Continue reading A Beautiful, Feminine, Godly Example of How to Handle Conflict

Some Husbands Share Their Perspectives – PART 1

Here are some questions I asked the gentlemen readers a few weeks ago: 1. What are some things that you would like to ask your wife to do for you that you believe would make your marriage stronger? 2. What are some practical things wives can do in general that would make their husbands feel… Continue reading Some Husbands Share Their Perspectives – PART 1

Do We Try to Control Our Husbands’ Jobs?

  Nikka and Dong     1. FROM AN ANONYMOUS WIFE who had been very upset her husband had been working six 12 hour days a week (at a very labor-intensive job) for over two months and wanted more time with him: The craziest thing just happened!! My husband just walk in and said he… Continue reading Do We Try to Control Our Husbands’ Jobs?

“Why Isn’t My Husband More Supportive of Me As I Seek to Change?”

When a wife first begins this journey, it can be a very difficult time for her husband, many times, too. Let me see if I can pull the curtain back a bit on a husband’s heart and mind during these first few months (and maybe even years) when a wife truly repents and begins to… Continue reading “Why Isn’t My Husband More Supportive of Me As I Seek to Change?”