We found 50 results for your search.

“He Loves Me. He Loves Me Not.” – Finding Victory over Feelings of Insecurity

(This post is not for women whose husbands are abusive, are involved in unrepentant infidelity or criminal activity, are initiating divorce with their wives, have uncontrolled mental health problems, or have active addictions to drugs/alcohol right now.) Thankfully, most husbands are relatively decent men who truly love their wives and long for their wives to… Continue reading “He Loves Me. He Loves Me Not.” – Finding Victory over Feelings of Insecurity

Roots of Insecurity, Low Self Esteem, Sinful Jealousy and Desire to Control

Yesterday, we looked at how we as women desire security in our lives and in our relationships so desperately.  But we often look for it in all the wrong places instead of finding our security in Christ alone. I believe that the deep roots of a woman’s insecurity in her marriage, her “low self esteem,” her desire… Continue reading Roots of Insecurity, Low Self Esteem, Sinful Jealousy and Desire to Control

Is It Time to Stop Being Nice?

Let’s look at the important differences between niceness and Christlikeness so we don’t get sucked into dysfunctional relationships.

Baby Steps to “Take Your Thoughts Captive for Christ”

If my husband doesn’t do something I wanted him to do, can I actually stop the negative thoughts spinning in my head?

The Ugly Anatomy of a Negative-Thought-Spiral

What is really happening when I start thinking negatively about my husband and can’t stop?

Look Outward with the Heart of Christ

We have been unpacking the 4 Step Peace Plan for several posts. There is a summary at the bottom of the post. <3 When women are whole in Christ they are empowered by God to stop harming others. In Him, we have divine power to greatly bless our marriages and relationships. Once you see Jesus… Continue reading Look Outward with the Heart of Christ

Resources for Wives with Angry Husbands

Dear sisters, For dealing with an angry husband, I have several resources I would like to share that I hope might be a blessing. Of course, each situation is a bit different. It is tempting to respond to our husband’s anger with anger of our own. But it is much more productive and healthy for… Continue reading Resources for Wives with Angry Husbands

4 Approaches When You Think Your Husband Doesn’t Care

In the last post, we talked about four primary reasons why your husband may seem to not care about you. It is critical that you can identify which of the four root causes is the issue in your marriage so that you can decide how to approach the issue wisely. It takes the discernment and… Continue reading 4 Approaches When You Think Your Husband Doesn’t Care

What If Your Husband Doesn’t Care about Your Feelings?

What can you do if you believe your husband doesn’t care about how you feel, your happiness, and what you desire in your marriage?

What Is the Difference Between Complaining and Informing?

Photo by Mimi Thian on Unsplash Avoiding complaining can get a bit fuzzy, at times. There are situations where we need to inform those around us about important things they need to know. How can we discern the difference between complaining vs. informing?   Let’s hash through this a bit together. About Complaining – from… Continue reading What Is the Difference Between Complaining and Informing?