“Some Ideas That Helped Me Destroy My Marriage”

From a dear sister in Christ in whom God has been working mightily. How I thank her for her willingness to allow me to share her story. May her experiences be a lighthouse that warns us not to follow in her same path, that we might not wreck our lives and marriages in a similar way. The… Continue reading “Some Ideas That Helped Me Destroy My Marriage”

Husbands Are Never “the Absolute Authority”

I don’t want anyone to be unclear about this!!!! God is the only absolute authority. God’s Word, the Bible, speaks for God. It is authoritative over our lives. When God delegates authority to people, it is to protect, care for, nurture, love, tend to, shepherd, and honor His beloved people. In Christianity, authority is not… Continue reading Husbands Are Never “the Absolute Authority”

"God Showed Me How to Approach My 'Command Man' Husband"

This precious sister in Christ responded to “A ‘Drill Sergeant’ Approach VS. a Godly Feminine Approach.” I’m so thankful she allowed me to share. Please seek God’s Spirit’s wisdom and prompting above any human examples you see here or anywhere else. God is the One with ALL wisdom and ALL power. He can give us exactly… Continue reading "God Showed Me How to Approach My 'Command Man' Husband"

A “Drill Sergeant” Approach VS. a Godly Feminine Approach

A “Humorous Wedding Cake Topper” at Wal-Mart. Definitely not the picture of godly femininity we are going for! And not humorous at all, in my view. Warning: Please do not attempt any of the things I talk about on my blog without the Holy Spirit’s counsel. John 16:14: “and He will give you a Counselor… Continue reading A “Drill Sergeant” Approach VS. a Godly Feminine Approach

Totally Change Your Reality

Our daughter and I watched a show with a cat behaviorist, Jackson Galaxy, together last week. The cat owner was a famous young woman who often tweeted about her cat and used some dreadful names for him in her tweets. Galaxy said something profound: Words have power. What you speak becomes your reality. He talked… Continue reading Totally Change Your Reality

Righteous Jealousy and Anger

I have been listening to a podcast series on the attributes of God by Wayne Grudem from Systematic Theology. If you get a chance to listen to that part, it is really good! He was talking about God’s righteous jealousy and God’s holy wrath in the podcast I listened to today. And I want to be… Continue reading Righteous Jealousy and Anger

Please, God! Ask Me for Anything But This!

From a dear single sister in Christ who is in her thirties, I so appreciate her willingness to share her story – and I believe that what God showed her is something He wants to show each of us as His followers: I remember when God asked me to give up my dreams. “Okay God,… Continue reading Please, God! Ask Me for Anything But This!

A Fellow Wife Thinks about Giving Space

We are continuing to talk about giving our husbands space. (When Your Man Needs Space– was Monday’s post.) I know this won’t apply to every marriage dynamic for every wife. But I have a feeling there are a lot of you for whom this topic is a difficult one and a relevant one right now.… Continue reading A Fellow Wife Thinks about Giving Space