What is Attractive/Unattractive to Our Husbands?

Greg and April at Magnolia Plantation, Charleston, SC – April 2013 (I write primarily for wives who tend to be more Type A and controlling – if you are the opposite of that, this blog may not be a good fit for you. If you are experiencing abuse in your marriage, please do not read… Continue reading What is Attractive/Unattractive to Our Husbands?

Prayer Day – Desire

Ladies, Some things I hear frequently from wives who feel unloved is that they wish their husband desired them: “I want him to WANT to be with me.” “I want to be his highest priority!” “I don’t want him giving attention to anyone else that should rightfully belong to me.” “I wish he wanted to… Continue reading Prayer Day – Desire

Choosing Our Counselors Wisely

1 Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way that sinners take or sit in the company of mockers, 2 but whose delight is in the law of the Lord, and who meditates on his law day and night. 3 That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in… Continue reading Choosing Our Counselors Wisely

A Wife Changes Her Perspective

A wife’s response to “Things Are Beginning to Click – A Wife’s Little Victories”. Please remember that every wife’s story is unique.  Husbands usually take a long time to heal. Some husbands never change. We are not guaranteed that God will change our husbands, but we are guaranteed He will change US when we trust… Continue reading A Wife Changes Her Perspective

Dying to Self

I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.  I do not set aside the grace of God, for if righteousness could be gained through the law, Christ… Continue reading Dying to Self

A Wife Sees Her Husband in a Totally New Light

From a dear sister in Christ who has given me permission to share (I have not included everything I wrote to her in this post). I appreciate her allowing me to share her story! EMAIL #1 I have been following your blog for about 2 weeks and reading and praying and TRYING so hard…I am… Continue reading A Wife Sees Her Husband in a Totally New Light

How a Fellow Wife and Her Husband Decided to Handle their Finances

From a Fellow Wife.  There is no specific “right way” for a godly couple to handle money issues. I love to give lots of different couple’s approaches so that wives can prayerfully consider different options and seek God’s wisdom for their own marriage and maybe have some ideas about how to respectfully approach the issue with their… Continue reading How a Fellow Wife and Her Husband Decided to Handle their Finances

Ways Husbands Lead that Wives Often Don’t Notice – From the Archives

A REMINDER: I write from the slant of a wife who was dominating, Type A personality, take-charge, controlling, overly responsible, overly “helpful” and prideful with a passive husband. If you tend to be too quiet or have a very dominant husband, my slant may not be the angle you need because you are going to… Continue reading Ways Husbands Lead that Wives Often Don’t Notice – From the Archives

Prayer Day! Praying from an Obedient Life

Man is looking for better methods. God is looking for better men. Man is God’s method. The Power of Prayer – by E.M. Bounds QUOTES BY E.M. BOUNDS – “The Necessity of Prayer” (a reverend during the Civil War in America in the 1800s)  Praying that does not result in right thinking and right living,… Continue reading Prayer Day! Praying from an Obedient Life

Silent Nagging – by Nikka

Baptism of our 3rd child – Nov 2010 From my amazing friend and sister in the Lord, Nikka.  You can find her blog at www.peacefulwifephilippines.blogspot.com.  She began this journey to become a godly wife 9-1-2013. I used to think I was the picture of a kind and respectful wife. You see… I did not nag.  … Continue reading Silent Nagging – by Nikka