Contentment Results from Having Christ as LORD, Not Just Savior in My Life!

Anyone who loves his father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; Anyone who loves his son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me; And anyone who does not take His cross and follow Me is not worthy of Me.  Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for My sake will find it.  Matthew 10:37-38


If you don’t know Christ Jesus as your Savior and Lord – I want to invite you to read the “How to Have a Relationship with Christ” at the top of my home page to see how you can have a real, living, intimate relationship with Him and accept His marriage proposal to you to be part of His bride, the church, in heaven!!   You are always welcome to contact me about how to accept Christ into your life and how to live for Him!  JESUS IS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE!


If you do know Christ as your Savior – I would like to ask you to do a heart check today.  Is He also TRULY your Lord?  Does He call the shots in your life?  Does He hold the controls?  Is there something, or multiple things that you are holding back from Him?  I used to be TERRIFIED to surrender control to Jesus about certain things.  Until I began to know Him so much more intimately.

I used to think these verses were WAY HARSH.  How could Jesus really ask me to love Him more than my parents or my family?  That’s going a bit overboard, right?

Well…  I totally get it now.

He is not asking for anything from me that He hasn’t already done for me Himself.  He gave up EVERYTHING to be able to be with me.  He gave up heaven, His constant communion with His Father, His sinlessness, His glory, His comfort, His safety, His body, His blood, His life, His love, His forgiveness, His mercy, His grace…  There is NOTHING He hasn’t done for me in order for me to have the chance to accept His gift of an intimate ONE SPIRIT relationship with me.  He wants to come to live in my soul, in my body, in my life – to know me  and to be known by me.  And He wants me to live with Him forever in perfect unity in heaven.  He wants that deep, living, intimate relationship with you, too, precious wife!


This is one of my favorite love songs “from Jesus” to us… POWERFUL STUFF!

THE POWER OF THE CROSS – Keith and Kristyn Getty  – We sing this one at church often, and it’s one of my favorites!  I can barely make it through singing the song out loud – Jesus’ gift to me is so unfathomable!


He asks for the same loyalty of me that He has shown for me.  He is not asking me to die in His place to take His punishment.  Of course, He didn’t deserve punishment, I did.  Although, it is possible He may ask me to be willing to give up my life for His Name.  There are many thousands of people each year who are martyred for their love for Jesus.  He does call me to love Him more than I love my own life.  But whether I am actually martyred or not, He is worthy of me sacrificing my will and my life for His desires EVERY DAY.  He is worthy of me taking up my cross to follow Him and my dying to myself and living for Him.

He is MY Hero.  He is asking me to honor Him, worship Him, submit to Him, trust Him, obey Him, love Him with all that I am, and not let anything come before my devotion for Him in my soul.

This is a covenant relationship just like marriage.  The husband and wife commit to each other completely. Do I put Him in His rightful place in my heart and life – or are there idols that I prioritize over my Lord?  He’s not Lord if I serve some other master.  Am I willing to give up EVERYTHING else for Him?


If there is something I am holding back – children, marriage, spouse, money, job, health, retirement, power, a nice house, nice things, dreams, safety,  plans, control, comfort, freedom…  Jesus says I am not worthy of Him.  If I am trusting the government, or having a job, or having electricity, food and gasoline more than I am trusting Him – there is a BIG problem in my relationship with my Lord!   Those things are idols if I can’t willingly release them into His hands and trust Him to do what is best for me and what will bring Him the greatest glory.  Even if it hurts.

That’s scary at first.  When I didn’t know how BIG and how LOVING Jesus is – surrendering and submitting to Him was scary.  Just like before I understood how wonderful my husband really was, submitting to him seemed really scary, too.  The more I began to trust my husband, the more I saw how strong, responsible and dependable he really is – it became easier and easier to give up control and trust him (Some of you are living with men who aren’t safe and trustworthy – please seek godly help ASAP!).

It was the same with God – I thought He was small, fairly powerless and impotent (if I really examined my heart).  The thing is, even if I try to hang on tightly to the people and things I care about – I DON’T actually control anything.  It is an illusion that I have control!  How much better, then, to trust the loving God of the universe Who actually IS in control.  When I surrendered control to my husband – he could have decided to take my trust and abuse me.  But that is NOT AT ALL WHAT HAPPENED!  When he saw how much faith I had in him, he became even more godly, loving, protective, responsible and careful and he developed a heart to serve me and do what was best for me.  If a sinful man can respond like that when I put my trust in him, imagine what a Holy God will do!  He promises us that He knows how to give good gifts to His children.  And He says that we, though we are evil, give our children good things.  How much more will He give us good things when we ask Him! The more I have come to know Him, the more His Spirit fills up every corner of my soul, the more His perfect love drives out all fear, and the more abundant life I get to experience on a daily basis – the more  I see that I WOULD BE INSANE NOT TO TRUST HIM AND OBEY HIM COMPLETELY.  I would be CRAZY to hold anything back from Him.  He always has my good and His glory in mind.

I have to be willing to hold everything loosely in my hands and allow Him to take and give as He decides is best.  When I am completely yielded – every part of my heart, soul, mind, body and life is completely yielded to Him – THAT is when His power overtakes me and supernatural GOD SIZED THINGS start to happen!  I give up some small things, and He rains down abundant blessings 100X what I gave!   This is how I begin to live in His unexplainable peace, joy, self-control, love, gentleness, faithfulness, generosity, forgiveness, grace, mercy, goodness and how I have the life I have always wanted!   My way leaves me discontent, empty, broken, useless, paralyzed, anxious, afraid, lonely and miserable.  God’s way is the only way that leads to peace and fulfillment for me.  Just like I have to yield control in marriage to find joy and contentment, I must yield control to Jesus to find abundant life spiritually!

If I say that Jesus is my Lord – my answer to Him is always, “Yes, Lord.”  There is no “No, Lord.”

Lord Jesus,

Reveal to each of us the parts of ourselves that we are afraid to trust to Your loving, wise, all-knowing, omniscient, sovereign hands.  Help us to see how AWESOME You are!  Help us to see how small we are.  Help us to see that we are clinging to dirty rocks and pebbles tightly, afraid to trust You with our treasures, but You want to replace them with REAL, LASTING treasures, jewels and diamonds.

Open our eyes to see all the resources of heaven that are at Your command.  Open our eyes to see and know You more.  Let us long to know You more than anything!  Let us seek Your face above everything!  Let us be people who live by faith and who are filled with Your Spirit and who bring great glory to You by Your power living in us.  Let us be obedient, willing and trusting people of God.  Help us to really examine ourselves to make sure that we are putting You as Lord of lords in our hearts.  Change us!  Make us more like Christ!  Convict us of our sin and cleanse us so that You can set us aside to be useful for Your amazing purposes and plans.

In the Power of Jesus’ Name and in His will,


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52 Comments on “Contentment Results from Having Christ as LORD, Not Just Savior in My Life!”

  1. ronfurg
    May 22, 2012 at 7:14 am #

    Your blog is a tremendous encouragement to me and I have recommended it to my friends and family. Thanks for sharing your insights and godly wisdom with us.

    • peacefulwife
      May 22, 2012 at 7:58 am #

      Thank you for the encouragement and the kind words. I pray that Christ will be greatly glorified and His Word lifted up in all that I think, write and do. May God richly bless your walk with Him!

  2. Adam's Eve
    May 23, 2012 at 6:53 pm #

    This is a beautiful post and a great reminder. I used to be terrified to give my husband over to the Lord so frightened that he would take Adam away from me. I also used to think that verses in the Bible were too harsh. How could God say I’m not worthy of Him if I love others more than Him? Isn’t that unloving? But it’s wonderful to be reminded like you said, that “He is not asking for anything from me that He hasn’t already done for me Himself.” And no one else pulls through for me perfectly like Christ did and does. Great post, April!
    P.S. I added this tag on my post today since I was talking about contentment.

  3. Danielle
    October 28, 2013 at 11:27 pm #

    Thank you so much for posting. I really enjoyed this entry and the music too!

  4. Vinodhini
    January 23, 2014 at 2:30 am #

    What a powerful prayer!!

  5. Ursula Herrera
    March 14, 2014 at 10:07 am #

    This post make me cry! April I been follow your blog for 2 months now you help me so much I became more close to The Lord than never been before. It’s been so hard and so painful recognize all my sinful nature. It’s changing me slowly it’s blessing my marriage and my husband. A few days a go I listen the song alabaster box I love it! I truly recommend it. Thanks April! All my love to you God bless you and greetings from Mexico

    • peacefulwife
      March 14, 2014 at 2:21 pm #


      I am so glad to hear from you!

      I praise God that He is working so powerfully in your life. YAY!!!!! And I can’t wait to see all that He has in store for you, your husband and your marriage. Thank you for the encouragement! This is painful at times, it is hard to see our sin. But then God is able to cleanse us and make us new and so beautiful in His sight. It is worth it!


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